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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:torn between lovers. i'm married to M for 6 years but in love with C for 9 years. C has always been there for me no matter what but he was married until about a year ago thats why our relationship never went any further. i love him i feel secure he's honest, loyal and very very trustworthy. now M i met and was dating him and C at the same time (i still am) now M is or i thought was the one but i'm questioning that now. i love M but i'm not secure i really don't trust him like i trust C. right now M is not trustworthy. neither no about one another they met about 6 years ago. i get confused at times and run to C for comfort and leave M for periods of time (weeks) I did think that M was okay with that until recently he brung his ex wife into our home (M) thats why i don't trust him as far as i see him. now at the time he brought the ex in the home i went away for those weeks i mentioned. but i'm nosey i flew home and intercepted nothing happen between husband and ex. i tend to get afraid (i think) and leave my husband time to time i feel more stabel and secure with C. i can't fiqure out what to do should i try my marriage with M or should i go with my heart and go to C (even though i'm married) please give by the way sex is great great with M but i don't think sex is happiness (maybe)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): why shouldn't your husband seek comfort with his ex when you have been runnig to your other lover all the time.
do yourself and both men a favour- leave, go find yourself you ramble like a basketcase. how can you claim not to trust your husband when you have been getting it on with another man.
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (21 September 2009):
 How completely selfish of you to drag your husband around on your back bumper for all these years. You should have worked out your feelings a long time ago and never should have dated him when you were into someone else. And you are still dating the other man and sitll in love with him. You are cheating on your husband. Set him free. You talk about this like it's all about your happiness but you should consider thinking about him and the way he feels. This is about him, not you! Divorce your husband and tell him what you've done so he can go with the right feelings toward you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
There is no point in staying in an unhappy relationship, expecially if you don't trust M. If your heart is with C, then you may well be better letting M go and going with C.
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