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anonymous
writes:Hi long story but to put it simply... I like a guy but am terrible at reading men and "the signs"... so was wondering if you could help me out...? Does this guy like me? Only want one thing? Want anything? Im so confused...A year ago I got with him the night I first met him and he was the first guy I ever did ANYTHING intimate with (he went down on me) yes I know this sounds slutty but its the first and only time I have ever done somehting like that, so don't judge,he's just really attractive. Anyway... it was always very awkward after that.UNTILI got to know him the other day and he said sorry etc and turns out hes a really nice guy. These are the reasons I have for thinking he may like me:- he makes comments like how he loves my boobs (theyre all he ever compliments, don't know whetehr to take these compliments seriously cos i get them all the time as im a 30HH, i never get guy compliments on anything else, ive even had ppl say theyre the only gd thing about me, and my guy MATES always make comments about them, and yes it gets really annoying but thats a different matter sorry Im getting off track)-I keep on ending up in a bed with him and we always cuddle, but I instigate the cuddling as in I put my head on his chest then he puts his arm around me. -we were cuddling this one time and he starts getting wandering hands, it felt really good and I was reciprocating just like rubbing his chest... then we got interrupted as someone came in who also wanted to sleep in the bed and he just gets up and goes to sleep somewhere else? Does this mean he couldn't wait to get out the room?-also when hes, lets say, under the influence, hes always like ohhh your so cool and stuff, but hes the kind of guy who says that to everyone.-hes always like "oh if its hard for you to get home just stay at my house" or i ask where am i sleeping when we get there "well theres the spare room, or my bed?" so i dont knowwwww what he means!soooooowhat do you think?sorry this is so long winded but pleeease help me out!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): Because he is drunk and tired....and because someone else came into the room and he felt awkward so got up and moved...trust me the opportunity will happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): this is the poster:
but if hes after "one thing" why doesnt he try to get with me when its just us two in bed? He either hugs me or just rolls over and goes to sleep? Nothing sexual...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): This guy is clearly into you for one thing and one thing only-- sex. He isn't taking you out on dates and acting respectful and showing you off and getting to know the real you....he is just full of lust and it sounds like you are as well, but afraid it/he will end up hurting your feelings...so there is your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): this is the poster... thank you
any other opinions would help?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2009):
From a male:This sounds suspiciously like he wants to use you for one thing. When a guy likes you as a whole, he will compliment you on everything, not just certain things. He hasn't said anything else about you. I think he's trying his luck, so be careful you don't get used. Men are very good at saying one thing and meaning or thinking another. Wait for someone to come along who actually cares about who you ARE, not just certain assets! Hope that helps.
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