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51-59,
anonymous
writes:The situation is this: I am married (separated), he is not, we were friends,we had a sex a few times,now he never contacts me... ran into him recently, he ignored me but looked uncomfortable, still he stayed close by all night. SO I decided to text him to put an end to this and to try to figure out why he just pulled away. I told him I missed our friendship and thought we could maintain it. I expressed how unfortunate it is and that him ignoring me is childish because he doesn't need to be afraid of me. The thing is ... he has not responded. What is the deal? It is almost like he is so freaked out that he can't deal with this. I just don't want it to be awkward and I do want to be friends. Will we ever again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Forget about trying to be friends. It sounds like you have invested too much of your time thinking about this and he is no longer interested. Just remember the good times if you need to, but move forward with your life. If you keep bumping into this person, just say hi. You don't have to be uncomfortable. Remember,there are plenty of good friends out there that could become great lovers!
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (21 September 2009):
It is possible he was only your friend at the start because he fancied you, finally got in with you and then realised it wasn't what he wanted. He could have been a genuine friend and feels awkard about what hes done. You have done your best telling him where he is with you, hopefully he will tell you where you are with him but at the end of the day, there is only so much you can do in these situations and life is too short.
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