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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I were together for a long time, now he is dating another girl and he tells me that he still loves me, always hangs out with me and is always the first one to call or text me. He gets mad when I talk to other guys and still treats me like I'm still his girlfriend, but, he wont leave her and I don't know why, if he is going to treat me like his girlfriend then why wont he be with me. If he means half of the things he says then I don't understand why he can't just give me another chance. I'm tired of being the (other woman) but I don't know how to tell him either your going to be with me and prove to me that what you still say to me is real or just leave me alone. help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): he is using you. why buy the milk when he gets the cow for free? get your self respect back and kick him to the curb. you set no bounderies for him so he is free to come and go as he please. because you let him.
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female
reader, peaches83  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 By him been with another woman while seeing you shows that he has no respect for female in any degree.
Its a no win situation.
Even if he did commit to you, by knowing that he has seen several women at once you would constantly be wondering if he was cheating and basically you can not go through a relationship with out trust.
Now to say he is a good for nothing is wrong of me so i wont, but think yes he treats you well and tells you one thing, but what is he saying and doing to the other.
If men or women were ment to have multiple partners then they would allow you to marry more than one at a time.
I think that by finding a man that is totaly commited to you, you will find yourself uch more happier and feel a lot better about yourself.
Good luck
Peaches
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 In Puerto Rico we call these guys the ones that don't and don't let us eat. He, apparently, does not want a relationship with you but he doesn't want you to be in a new relationship either.He is treating you like this because you are permitting him to do so. Whenever you are ready, make it stop!! It will only make it more difficult for you to let go and find a new relationship. Good luck!
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