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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Well things started out innocent,I was on my boyfriend's laptop trying to email myself something that I saved in documents, so I figured it should just be in recent documents, I go there and see pictures of his old girlfreinds, if they're in recent documents doesn't that mean they were recently viewed? Then I see a picture of someone I assume his is ex, but the picture file is dated just a few months ago, it's her at a desk, innocent enough, but another one of her that was labeled "her name with dark hair", and this was a close up. Well I freaked out, jumped to conclusions, wrote him a somewhat nasty letter, signed it have a nice life etc., left the letter on his computer and walked out while he was sleeping. Then as soon as I got home I regretted it, but I was still hurt and confused, so I left him a phone message that he did not respond to, he eventually emailed me and said he did not want to talk to me, and he has no contact with old girlfreinds and the one I saw was some picture from someone that he lived nearby in his hometown,(who is married with kids) who had recently sent a pic of herself at her office, and offered travel accomidations for him and his son, that's the business she's in I guess,(he didn't explain the other picture of her that was just a closeup). So I feel like I overeacted and sabatouged a relationship that is very important to me all due to unsubstantiated suspicions, I wasn't accusing him of cheating, I just don't understand why they were recently viewed, and the additional picture that went unexplained. I wish I wouldn't have written the letter, I should've just talked to him, now I feel terrible, and I just want to fix it. Just how poorly did I handle all this?
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