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writes:I've seen porn and couldn't help but notice that some girls on there squirt while they orgasm. They squirt sometimes through the clit and sometimes through their vaginal hole. I'm still a teen and a virgin so I don't know how I can do this. I've masturbated before but when I climax it only becomes wetter and I don't squirt or even drip. Can someone tell me how I can please? I'd appreciate it deeply:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2011): ALL women have the ability to squirt its just that not all of them know how to release it. It has a lot to do with how tight your PC muscles are and if you are able to fully relax and "let go". The ejaculation that happens when you squirt does not come from the clitoris but comes from the urethra just the same as a man's. Actually, that feeling you get after your orgasm of having to pee after sex is your body wanting to release the built up ejaculate which all women build up naturally. Some are able to do it through oral stimulation and others only from direct stimulation to the g-spot either by finger or by toy. It doesn't bother me that I do it, in fact, its actually brought a little more fun to the bedroom. Those of you who assume it's just an effect the porn industry created, whether you have the desire to know how to squirt or not, is wrong and betting you'd be able to do it too. Next time you have sex just pee first so there's no confusion and when you're building up to your orgasm let your body fully relax and push out when you feel like you have to pee. It's the best full-body orgasm a woman can have in my opinion but if you have no desire to do this then that's what you choose not to do.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (24 July 2011):
 95% of women do not squirt and NEVER WILL. Its not something you can practice, its a bodily function which happens or it doesn't.
Dont judge yourself against porn; its not real. Squirting does not come from the clitoris. Female ejaculation refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): I only squirted for the first time with my current boyfriend last week, and I am 23, so dont worry too much about when or how it will happen. But the trick for me was a lot of clit and g-spot stimulation at the same time then when it feels like you are going to pee, let go, relax and push down into the feeling!
Apparently if you finger yourself and make a motion like you are changing gears on a bike or revving a motorcycle then you can make yourself squirt, ive never tried that tho!
Most importantly have fun and be safe and enjoy your body! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): It takes time, experiences, patience and the right partner for this to happen... Basic for me I need lots of oral stimulation.
Try this
Take a shower,go pee....then have your partner satisfy you orally when you are about to orgasm and it feels like you have to pee...let it flow!
seems like you are young so...
Have safe sex with someone who cares for you!
good luck!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 July 2011):
 Nah, you can't force it. It either happens or it doesn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): I suggest you google "how to stop squirting"and see how many women are looking that up. There are many women (I am one of them) who squirt and wish they didn't. I don't understand why would anyone want to do it? It doesn't make any sense to me. It just makes a huge mess.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (24 July 2011):
 Generally a squirting orgasm comes from G-Spot stimulation. The G-Spot is the feel good spot inside of you, vs. the external spots like the clitoris.
Not all women squirt, so you may not be the squirt type. That's perfectly ok, and hey, less to clean up. The other thing is, I'm pretty sure there isn't a hole in the clitoris, so what you proabably saw was juice that was kinda pointed upward and looked like it came from the clit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): Yeah... probably not the best of ideas to rate yourself against what you see in porn.
There are all sorts of tips and tricks that the women in Porn films use for that, and most are just smoke and mirrors. There are some who have an uncanny ability to naturally violently squirt out vaginal juices during Orgasm, but most women do not.
The same way that most men do not have 13 inch penises without surgical enhancement.
Just make sure you are having fun with sex, that you are satisfied and keep it spiced up, that's really all that matters. Not whether you can shoot liquid 50 yards from your hoo-haa.
Flynn 24
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reader, zhacha +, writes (24 July 2011):
Ignore much of what you see in porn which often makes what on 'some' experience appear that EVERYONE does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): Very few women actually do squirt and most of us have zero interest in learning.
Invest your time in something else.
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