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writes:my ex is back on the scene. we split up a few years back, over what i cant even remember. ive always had a soft spot for him he knows this cause stupidly i texted him saying how i wanted to get back together, he didnt bother replying so i left it at that, last week i went to the cinema with a male friend, he texted me asking what i was up to so i told him, he got really funny about it asking why he wasnt invited....i got the impression he doesnt want a relationship with me otherwise hed have said when i told him how i felt right??? hes been making excuses to come round to use the internet even though i know hes online at work and home. when he round we watch a dvd and he always leans over to kiss me or asks me to, so i oblige (the last two times i wouldnt kiss him as i dont want him thinking im his booty call) and when he leaves he always gives me a lingering kiss as though we are lovers that are parting.im so confused! im be very grateful for any advice, and thank you very much in advance!!
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Donna is spot on, It sounds like she knows what a real woman is. Oh, and decide for yourself in the meantime what you really want in a man and from this relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Hi sweetie, I understand what u must b going thru cz i went thru the same thing..my ex always took me 4 granted cz he knows i love him madly...but when i ignore him he comes back begging 4 another chance..b expensive..dont call/txt him...we girls always give in cz we love em and dnt feel like loosing em.it might take some time 4him 2 realize ur value..but wait until then.i know ts easier said than done,but thats the best thing to do and blive me it works..jst let go 4 the moment..b patient..gud luck
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (13 July 2007):
 Hi hun,
You have let him know how you feel darling, now leave him to pursue you its the male role to chase the woman so let him chase you......
I know its hard but resist chasing him don't call him let him call you babes, trust me it works it may take him time but hey when he does start chasing you your going to feel great......
You carry on going out and enjoying yourself in the mean time be sweet to him and he won't be able to resist ya!!!
Good luck
Love Donna xx
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