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writes:I'm 14 and I have a crush on a girl with the same age. I met this girl in the ending of July and I talked with her for three days (long enough to develop my crush). In August, she went on vacation to a far place, but we kept talking by text-messaging each other. Well, she came back, but I'm shy and I don't know if I should invite her to do something together (like going to the cinema or something). She lives somewhat far from my house... I can't go on foot to his house. So, should I invite her out? I don't fear the answer but the mistakes that I may do in the date (it'd be my first date)... Help, please! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): I think you should at least ask her out once, if you don't you will always wander what if. I know that getting up the courage to ask someone out for the first time must be extremely hard, but she may be wandering when you are going to ask her out on a date. Did you ever think of that? She may like you alot and here you are stalling because you are afraid of what may happen,, my advice to you would be go for it. Ask the girl out, it sounds like you already have a pretty cool friendship. On your date just be yourself and remeber to be mega nice, girls do like a nice date. Treat her very special!
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reader, Edward Helps  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Young love. Well, you should invite her to the movies. If you want to go out with her then tell her how you feel. If she likes you back then you two will get together. If not, well at least you can say you gave it a try and it's her loss. You should ask her out and see what happens. It's better to know for sure than to just think or wonder.
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 I think that you should go for it and everyone makes mistakes the first time they do new things so don't worry about it. Do something basic like go to the cinema because then as seen as you're shy you wont have to speak to her during the film but instead you can think of things to say once the films over! lol
Go for it i say!!
good luck!
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reader, xnickx +, writes (24 August 2008):
 dont worry. if you never ask youll never know. everyone gets nervous, its normal. She'll more than likely to be nervous too. you really cant make a mistake as long as you be yourself, if she doesnt like you for yourself, she wont like you at all. If you want to feel adventurous, hold her hand, give her a kiss on the cheek. Do what ever feels right.
Best of luck xnickx
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