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writes:Right ok so i'm 20 years old i'm single but there is this guy he knows my best friend (whose also a guy) and i met him through him anyways we chatted got to know eachother so on and so forth but nothing ever happend with us he always told me he liked me and said i was beautiful and he would treat me like a princess.Then for a while we never spoke he was never online and we never text if i text first he'd never reply.so i thought fair enough leave it at that.anyways then all of a sudden he would talk to me out of the blue like i'd always talk to him when he came online and alot of the time no responses which i found odd.then one day if say hey online he'd say hey beautiful blah blah blah so on and so forth then the same thing would happen but this was EVERYTIME he had a new girlfriend he would always ignore me, i wasn't saying anything rude i would just text like a general hello how are you?and online the same sort of thing but everytime he would ignore me.but when that relationship ended he would be all hey beautiful and i'd say why did you ignore me? and he'd say the same thing "my girlfriend was controling hated me talking to any girls" and i would say well i'm only saying hello and how are you?i'm not saying OMG TAKE ME NOW! or anything like that just a general chit chat.anyways i spoke to him again recently and he was calling me beautiful he wants to wake up next to me so on and so forth and i always ask why he ignores me and he still says girlfriends were controling but this is like going through about 5 or 6 girls and everyone controling some how i don't think so.he says he wants to be with me and that he realised all the girls he gets with are to fill the void of not being with me, but now he's onto someone else and again ignoring me.everytime i text saying hello you up to much?or hey want to hang out? he ignores me and then i know he has a girlfriend because he'll never respond and when that ends it's the same story she was controling didn't like me talking to other girls.why does he always "declare" his likeness for me if in the end he ignores me?and i have said i'd like to go out sometime but then it never happens i arrange stuff and he ignores me because low and behold a girlfriend whose "controling"Why does he always mess me about?why say he likes me and ignore me when he has someone?why keep saying he wants to be with me and that all these other girls are to fill the void of not being with me when i've said he can and he's always saying he really wants too wake up next me and see my face in the morning but then gets a girl and completely blanks me?please don't leave rude comments i would like HELPFUL advice if you've got nothing nice to say then DO NOT say it.thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you again elpigaro much appreciated.
he asked me last night to go over to his place because he was lonely so i said no why?
and he said because he was feeling lonely i said why don't you ask someone you WANT over and he said i am you!
i was like umm no
i don't think so.
then he went offline.
that's a good thing what i did right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Well not really ;-)
Look I am in the same boat as you I know people who if only one or two things were different they would be the perfect person. Trust me its not worth hanging on for people like that, Thats a lesson I learned the hard way.
Enjoy yourself and steer clear of this guy,
Elpigaro
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell once again he's gotten into a relationship or something of that sort and once again he's ignoring me.i just try to talk to him as a friend because i was upset and needed to talk and he was online at the time and he just ignored meso i've had iti've decided now if that relationship ends in which i am sure it will then thats iti'm not having anything to do with himno contact even if he talks to mesee how he likes being ignored when he needs to talk the most!he's just soo mean!so i thought fine i won't be nice again to him he needs to talk thats it i won't respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionelpigaro thank you for your kind words :)
really sweet of you
are you hinting at something here elpigaro: please respond
"there are plenty more nice guys out there, (Ahem):-)"????
ha-ha!
thank you both so much for your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Well,
I think hesa user. I dislike him already becausetalk is cheap and thats all he is giving you. Try this delete him from your phone and dont contact him. See how long it takes him to come back to you.
If you like him I hope that he does. If he doesnt forget him. There are plenty more nice guys out there,(Ahem) :-)
At the end of the day, you are worth more than him.
Read your post and then ask yourself if a friend asked you that question what would you tell them to do,
Elpigaro
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