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writes:hi, im 22 yrs old and im pregnant for a guy who doesnt like me not 1bit, he saw me as a bootycall, few weeks ago i found out that im pregnant for the first time and the guy aint intrested he told me he doesnt want nothing to do with me or the baby, but i really like this guy. he doesnt answer my calls anymore he told me he has hes eyes on someone else which broke my heart. my question is what should i do???
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reader, xxbabyxmamaxx  +, writes (29 May 2012):
Obviously, you know you can raise this baby by yourself. He isn't worth it if he doens't want to be around for the baby and wants someone else, take him for child support. He'll want a DNA test done but if the baby is his he'll have to pay for it. I know hunnie, thats what I did whenever my 2 year old daughter was born. Her daddy didn't want anything to do with her, so i took him for support and now all of the sudden he does. BS!
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reader, princella  +, writes (25 November 2011):
just forget about him and move on with yourlife. he just wantd sex and not baby.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (22 March 2011):
 First of all, you need to get past your feelings for him. He doesn't deserve your affection, and he is making it very clear that he doesn't want it. He's not a good man to you or for you, so try your absolute stone-cold hardest to push all dreams of having a family/relationship with him. If you decide to have the baby after considering all your options, make sure you get a paternity test so that he can't escape child support payments. Don't let him walk out of this unscathed; you won't be able to, why should he? The best of luck to you in your healing process. The first steps you need to take are pushing all romantic feelings for him out of your heart and deciding what to do about the baby.
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reader, 13peaceNlove13 +, writes (19 March 2011):
honestly i know where your coming from im 6 months pregnant with a baby boy.. and single .. he has his other girl and im just the bby mama on the side ..sux. but i say u shud be strong and show him you have dignity and just do it for your baby most of all..see for me all i ever wanted and hopes changed as soon as i found out i was goin to be a mom i kant think for myself i have to think for my baby and whats best for him.. u should do the same .. if he grows some .... then hell come around sooner or later .. if not proof hes not worth staying with you and your baby
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (19 March 2011):
You have a few choices. Move on and far away from the guy. Decide about this child - to keep the baby as it is a part of you, or to adopt it to a loving family. If you do decide to keep the child, make certain you take the father to court for child support for the next 18 years or so to help care and keep the child. Be thankful you are not "stuck" with such an uncaring person the remainder of your young life! He could make your life and the baby;s lie miserable and for many years to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): There is nothing you can do about him not returning your feelings...The fact that you were not in a proper relationship with him should have made you careful to take extra precautions.....Dont try to 'trap him' or blackmail him with this pregnancy, I doubt it will work and even if he decides to give a relationship with you a try, it is likely it will fail and you will be much more heart broken ..What you should do??...Considering you were not a proper couple, respect his feelings and move on....Learn your lessons from this.....if you have sex always use protection even in a stable relationship...It is a very difficult situation for a young woman such as yourself...Dont deceive yourself that this baby wuld change his feelings toward you, he has been honest with you he wants someone else, you cant force him otherwise...If he decides to start seeing you it best he sees you cos he desires to but if he does not want to be with you , there is nothing you can do...
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reader, lostconfusedandtired +, writes (19 March 2011):
This is a really bad situation. I don't know your beliefs or how far along you are. I do know that this guy is telling you that his not interested. He probably had a gf and was using you to get some. Honestly guys are scum bags bags and why would you want to be w guy that uses you for his own selfishness. If you are in a position to take care of another life then you might consider keeping it. There's also adoption cause many couples can't have children and can give this child a great life. Or because im in healthcare there's also abortion. Depending on how far along you are and your values. Either way the decision is toys and its not an easy over so please think about it catefully but just know your on this alone and you can't count on him. If you have support from parents that will help you a lot. Good luck and sorry this happened to you but I have learned I will not sleep w a guy unless he gives me a commitment. Sex w a hot guy may feel good but the consequences aren't worth it. I hate these fuckers that do this to poor women.
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