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writes:[Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster combined]hey, so im completely confused on what to do, I have a boyfriend whos 2 years older than me, (we've been going out for about 2 weeks now) and I really like him, and we have loads of things in common but I know hes a player and probrably only wants me for sex..The other guy is my age and Ive secretly liked him for about 2 years and I just found out that he likes me.. I dont know what to do, im happy with the other guy, should I just drop it now for this guy..? --------------Ive been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now, im 14 and he's 16, but i am completely clueless on what to do, he wants to have sex and stuff but im just not ready for that yet, it would be different if we were going out for a long time and it was special and I loved him but I know he's probrably using me, because he is a bit like that... I dont want to dump him though because I am happy with him, I just dont want to go any further yet.. what do I do?
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (19 March 2011):
Drop the player, you know you will like the other guy much better in the long run. You say you are happy with your current boyfriend but A) you could be happier with someone else and B) I am not sure you are that happy for real. You have liked the other guy for two years, and you're just 14. Not the time for sex, so break up with this 16 year old guy. There is a red flag telling me he definitely just wants sexual pleasure out of you. People that are 20-25 even wait months to have sex, yet he wants to have it after just two weeks? Open your eyes please, and break up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): First question: asuming the boyfriends the same in both questions the other guy if not picture they're both falling off a bridge quick which one do you help first. Second question: just dump him
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