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writes:My LDR bf will visit me for his week long spring break in about ten days. I feel I am ready to have sex with him (he would be my first) but he is hesitant because he's worried it will be painful for me and I won't be able to enjoy it within the six days we are together. Is it possible for a woman to enjoy sex within a week? Not sure if this makes a difference but I know my hymen is already broken (it tore during gymnastics practice when I was 13)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): i dont know if i broke mine or not. But when i was about twelve i was riding my bike and i accidentilly hit a bump and my cruch landed on the bar! it hurt very bad and when i went home to check it, it was bleeding! so i dont know if i broke it or not but i know it wasnt my period because i didnt start till i was 13!So did i or not??
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (23 March 2007):
 Dear anonymous writer,
There is no need to rush into sex, and you may think that you are ready but when its time to happen you may not think the same way only you will know if your ready when the time comes..if you really love this guy and feel comfortable around him then it is possible to have sex in just a week,and still enjoy it, just relax dont get all worked up about it when it happens it happens but when you are stressing about it and not relaxed it will hurt and not feel good, the first time hurts but just keep your mind relaxed and things should work out good for you, and about the hymen it shouldnt bother anything just keep your mind relaxed and enjoy it and you will be fine...i hope i helped good luck
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reader, Farris  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 I agree with the comments below but would like to add this:
Don't forget that there are always OTHER enjoyable things you can do with your boyfriend, both sexually and otherwise!
Just remember to have fun!
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): i lost my virginity 2 weeks ago.. it hurt the first 2 days then it was enjoyable... it still hurts when it first goes in it just takes getting used to.. depending on how big he is... my boyfriend is abouve averidge so it does hurt a little.. just depends//.. xxx
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (20 March 2007):
 You firstly must make sure this is what you want. I know you think you do but don't rush into it just because you don't get to see him as often as you would like.
There's no reason why you can't enjoy the sex within a week. The first couple of times will be painful, some women have pain for a long time, but as long as you're relaxed, you should start enjoying it.
Don't rush things, it will all come good in time.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (20 March 2007):
You just need to be RELAXED, being tense and nervous will make the whole situation worse. Also, get some lubrication to make it even easier. It really depends on you, everyone is diffrent when it comes to these things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): We are all different so who knows the real answer but don't be too worried you won't enjoy sex within 6 days and he shouldn't either as if you are having sex with eachother you obviously love eachother and you will just enjoy the closness of being intimate with eachother. The key thing to bear in mind is to relax as the more you keep obsessing about not enjoying it the chance is that you really won't enjoy it. Just relax and go with the flow. It might be a bit strange to start with but i'm sure you two will have an amazing time whilst he's with you for the week. Then the next time after that you will not be able to wait to get your little claws into him!
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