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writes:i only seem to be attracted to men. im 14 and should be looking at boys my own age but instead im only intersted in men at least over 25..is that really freaky? all the lads in my year are great as mates but theyre just so immature! its doing my head in because id lv to be able to fancy someone i cud legally go out with!!!! instead im developing crushes on 30 year olds! help! all my friends think im weird cos they all fancy like orlando bloom n zac efron n people like that yet im more intersted in george clooney!!! i like men with like hairy legs n grey hair n stuff! does that make me seriously weird? i dunno...help me out! taa x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): hey, it's not wrong that you feel like you do, when i was your age i felt the same but i wouldn't reccommend looking for a relationship with a much older guy right now. I'm 18 and have always liked older men between say 25-50 but still have certain views on relationships with say anyone older than 27 for my age now. Anything other than a relationship with guys even older i view as just fun and theres no harm in that if you've got your head screwed on. Just be comfortable with how you feel, my mates have always pulled their faces up or giggled if i've thought someone much older is fit (i reckon they think i'm jokin) but it doesn't matter its just personal preferance. I rarely take lads my age seriously (as most are still very immature!) whether that will change as i get older and things may even out with the age i'm attracted too, only time will tell, lol. Basically, just accept how you feel and enjoy yourself while your young, don't worry about. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): hahah thats not that bad plz im 18 and i so wanna do my 62 yo track coach haha so thats not as bad as be sweety
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): Its not wrong to like older men...but your so young I think you need to wait til your 18 to date cause anyone who likes you now will go to jail and will want sex and things your not ready for.....just wait a while before you get someone in trouble.
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Hi,
No i dont think its weird at all i went out with a bloke at 14/15 he was nearly 30, the only thing that is a bit iffey is the underage stuff you just have to remember that side of things, i never slept with him so i never had to cross that bridge. Sorry i cant be any more help
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 14 year old guys can be immature that's for sure, but not to the point you want to start bunking with 30 year odls.You could just have a fetish, which is fine, but if that's the case, wait until you're 18 before you try any relationships, waiting that long would suck, but any 30 year old man who fancies you while you're still young he's a pedophile.If it is just maturity, I'm sure there are guys your age who find their peers too immature, but since you say you're attracted by the grey hairs, I think you want a guy who's physically mature too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): everyone has thier own lil crushes - there is no one who is right or wrong to fancy. problem is, cos your only like 13 - 15 you cannot get serious enough to get into a relationship with this age group becuase it is illegal (well to have sex at your age) wait till your 16 then people are less likely to complain or worry about you and older guys - then you can do what you want.ps orlando bloom is 30.
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