He was my best friend and I'm in love but now I rarely talk to him.

A female age 30-35, *nlove954 writes:

okay well theres this guy who im going to call "nick" . well nick and i have been bestfriends sense 5th grade and i am now in 8th . we went out once in 6th grade which was totally ridiculous. it was about a week and we never even saw eachother. i broke up with him cause of jealousy when i saw him comment one of my friends pics. he said it wasnt him it was his cousin but i dont why i was so stupid that i didnt believe it and just got mad. we remained bestfriends though. then in 7th grade he met this guy who im going to call "alex" . i liked alex alot that year but still always had feelings for nick. well him and alex became close friends and now its like i dont even know nick . for example he used to have long hair and then he spiked it and he used to not care about how a girl looked now hes all about the body. still we were best friends. he told me everything and i did too. that year he went out with one girl. its funny because right before he asked her out he asked me do you think i should what do you think about it? i said no offense but i doubt itll last. he went out with her but it didnt seem to be a problem to me sense i felt no competion and he still talked to me alot. so the day he broke up with her he called me and said im going to break up with her and i was on the line and everything when it happened. it was funny cause after he said its over she said are you leaving me for your bestfriend(me)? then after a little i talked to alex and stuff and he liked me and i liked him. what was wierd was that when i talked to alex at that time nick seemed to call me even more. nick called me one day and told me alex was going to ask me out and ofcourse i wanted to say yes but alex wasnt exactly one of those sweet guys that loved a girl he just used them so nick said i shouldnt go out with alex and i listened and said no.eversense that day i regreted it but i always had nicks shoulder to cry on although he sometimes got mad when i talked about alex too much lol. things happened that year and i felt a closer bond with him. we even walked all the way from the school to my friends house once to pick her up in the morning and we talked the whole way there. p.s i consider that one of the best days of my life!! lol. anyways during the summer nothing really changed we still talked but not as much. then 8th grade came and my world was turned upside down. i still remember that the first day of school he walked by my table at lunch and didnt even say hi so i yelled "hi nick!" and i was shocked how he turned around and just said what? the next day he called me and said it was because he didnt recognize me cause i cut my hair. he then met this girl and now theyve been together for about 6 months. they even had sex. and he doesnt even talk to me anymore. my friend told him i liked him and he said he was shocked but he really liked his girlfriend. hes in my gym class and we sit one person apart but he doesnt even say anything to me. the most he does is look at me and when i look he looks away. i dont know what to do. i like him more then anyone in the world and would do anything for him. and i dont want to lose him cause hes that person who i always had there with me through good and bad you know?i still want to know though do you think he liked me? and should i move on or not? what do i do! its killing me everyday even more and i want to talk to him about it but its not the same. soo what should i do?

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