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*hunkymunky
writes: ive been going out with this guy for 2 weeks (but ive been on holiday for the 2 weeks) and i saw him last night when i got back. he's a shy guy and he was really uncomfortable so he wasnt very touchy feely but we talked and it became more comfortable as the evening went on. i pecked him on the lips when he went and he kissed me back but then said sorry. i know hes very inexpirienced but i dont want things to be really uncomfortable between us all the time and im scared things wont change. we go to a big school and everything will judge me going out with him because no one even knew we were friends before we went out. i am reli nervous about going to school tomorrow because im worried about how he'll act and what everyone will say, help!!
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reader, hj87 +, writes (1 July 2007):
It doesn't matter what they think about you. Who cares? Just ignore them! those are the type of people who are jealous, insecure, and wants to stir up trouble and drama. Just let all of the criticism and bad judgements bounce out of you, and just stick it to them.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (28 June 2007):
hey who cars what other people think. i hated it everyone got invloved and they make it there business to no everything just don't let ir bother u and him being uncomfortable will go away its becausehe is ill experience in relationship and he doesn't want to make it too obivious but because he is tryin to hard its showin more bless him ( i hope u got that. honestly as long as u r happy with him don't worry bout it good luck
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reader, Dojha +, writes (28 June 2007):
Frankly,
i dont think it helps anything thinking too much about what other people may think. If you really like him and he likes you what does it matter that people didnt know you were friends before etc?
Brave yourself girl,and walk into school with confidence. Evenif anyone has something to say, most times they are too scared to even say it to your face so dont even give them a second's thought!
Hope this helps
Dojha
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reader, aiizskiieboo +, writes (28 June 2007):
Hey Girl,
if you really love this guy, you wouldnt care less what people think about your relationship with him. And, i think his going steady. Maybe he doesnt want to do all those touching stuff because his not sure if you want to. Don't worry about it. You love birds can make it. It doesn't really matter what people say about it, as long as you love each other. Communicate more with him. Laugh with him. Just be yourself and maybe he can be himself with you too. I know you can do it!
xoxo. =)
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