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*iizskiieboo
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for a month and 6 days. He's very sweet and caring but all of a sudden he asked me if we can have sex. He said it's okay if i don't want to. I'm 14 and his going to be 15 on July 14th. I said Yes, its okay. But we haven't have sex yet. I just want to be sure if it's okay. I know it's not but im tempted. I really need to tell him that i don't want to. I know im too young. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dojha  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 hey, you shouldnt even be stressing about this. he already said its okay if you dont want to. you know you shouldnt yet- cos of your age and you also know you dont want to. so that should make things easier.
communication is the key. Tell him to wait. If he respect you and cares enough about you. he will be patient and he will wait.
Hope this helps,
Dojha
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 June 2007):
 You just have to come straight out with it and tell him, you are too young, it is illegal and you are not ready for it.
If he is worth anything at all he will accept that and leave it till you are ready, if not then get rid of him beacuse you deserve more respect than that.
Take care.xx.
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reader, aiizskiieboo +, writes (28 June 2007):
aiizskiieboo is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you. Your answer really make sense. =)
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Honey, be honest and tell him how you feel.
He may sulk a bit for a while, but he will have so much more respect for you if you dont do this. Ok he wont show this at the time, but in a year or so if you are still together, he and you will be proud of yourselves for being grown up and waiting for the right time. If he leaves you because you wont have sex, then he was not the one to do it with in the first place.
Stand your ground XXX
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