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writes: I have been best mates with my friend for about 4 years now. I am 19 years old and she is 17. We kissed not long ago and have a lot of horny fun together. I don't think I'm gay - maybe bisexual - but I'm so scared of going public with her. I'm scared that people will look at us funny. Help me!
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (15 October 2005):
People will always have a problem with others who are different than them, especially homosexuals, but it's not your fault that you feel like that. If they have a problem with you then they will have to change and accept it because it's what makes you happy that counts. People just find it "weird" to see a girl with another girl or boy with another boy because when most of us were little, we always had that future plan of going to school, get good marks, get a job, then find the perfect person to marry, have kids and grow old. If you show people that you don't care what they think, they wont bother worrying about it anymore.
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reader, Delila +, writes (27 September 2005):
Hi,
You first of all need to accept that yes some people will look at you funny, and some people won't take any notice at all, and some people might look at ye and think it's great. Once you accept this and actually visualise it happening, it might not seem like such a big deal to you. There are always going to be people out there who like to stare and be rude but you will just have to ask yourself is it important what they think. The hard part will be telling your family and friends, once they accept it well it won't matter what the rest of the world thinks.
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