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writes: 11 years ago I met the love of my life. He was seperated from his wife and although I resisted, I fell head over heels in love with him. He explained his situation, in that he knew his marriage had been a big mistake, but he had stayed because of their adopted 3 year old daughter. We were deeply in love, and when his soon-to-be ex found out about us, she decided that she wanted to try again to make the marriage work. Broken hearted and motivated by guilt, feeling that he couldn't abandon his child, he ended our relationship and returned to the marriage. He contacted me 3 years later to tell me that after his best effort, he could no longer stay in the relationship. He told me that he bitterly regretted letting me slip through his fingers, but by that time I had already married. Once this man found out that my husband had died, he contacted me again asking to see me. It was as if time had stood still and the magic was still there. He proposed to me and we began making plans for the future. Unfortunately, the three years prior to my husband's death were spent (by me) in and out of the hospital having surgeries on my eyes due to a rare eye disease. I am legally blind and reading it difficult for me at best. During that period, my husband ran my company. After his death, I returned to work and since my love is a business analyst, asked him to do an assessment of my company. Upon my return I was aware that the company had been having difficulties, but totally unaware of how much or why. Over a two week period my love continually offered me financial assistance and I finally accepted 100k from him. This however, was before he did his assessment. One completed, the assessment revealed that my late husband had been bleeding my company financially for the entire time he ran it. My love then accused me of deceiving him and cheating him out of the funds. Now he is vacillating about us and says he has trust issues with me. He concedes that perhaps I didn't really cheat him, but he still vacillates. I am so very totally heartbroken over this. It's illogical thinking to me because I opened my files to him, and why would I cheat the one I love and the one I'm making plans for the future with? Please advise if you can.
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reader, magieluv +, writes (26 September 2005):
You are facing too much drama with this man.. Get out while the getting is good. I got a headache just reading all of the problems with this relationship. Save your own sanity. There is still someone out there for you, give others a chance.
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