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writes: Hey, Well Im 16 and started a new school quite a few months ago, I've made a lot of good friends and its all going great, but I can't help fancying my best friend who is also the same sex as me, Is this wrong? Im really confussed, shes everything to me, and im not going to tell her as 1. ive only recently started feeling like this and 2. theres a possibility it wood ruin our friendship. Shes funny, lovely and perfect and gets along with everyone. Ive never felt this way before and Im really scared, This feels really strong to me. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): i think i know how you feel. if you really are in love with her then you won't be able to give up easily. just be patient and give her very small hints as to how you feel, and if she loves you back, then hopefully she will come to you. i'm in a scenario almost exactly the same as yours(madly love with best friend but doesn't know if feelings are returned) but needing help myself, i can't give you much other advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): The odds are that your friend is not a lesbian, and if she isn't then she can't change that fact. People don't have control over who they are attracted to. Teens often go through a phase where they want to experiment with the same sex. Unless you find out that she feels the same way, I wouldn't say anything to her. I'm sorry that you're going through this dilemma. It sounds like either way, there's the possibility that you won't be happy with the outcome. I would wait a month or two before dealing with this. Hopefully it's just a phase. If it isn't then hopefully you can at least approach her with the fact that you are a lesbian. Feel it out from there and see how she reacts to the idea.
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