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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I used to go out with this guy, and he really loved me. But he dumped me by text and it wrecked me. I thought I was over him, but now I realised that I'm not and part of me is saying that I do love him but I really dont want to love him. Now I'm just really confused because he hurt me and I don't really want anything to do with him but I just can't stop thinking about him. What should I do?
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (15 August 2007):
You want closure due to the way he did it and you're focusing on this, so the more you think about it, the more you think you want him back even though you know it is wrong.
For now, go out with your friends. Meet other people. Don't go crazy or anything, but keep your mind busy and on other things.
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reader, girl with a point of view +, writes (15 August 2007):
some people do it over text because they dont want to see you hurt .. you can do better and tell yourseldf that just smile when things get you down. I know id try get in contact with him but dont cause he doesnt deserve your time of day xx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 August 2007):
 He didn't love you that much I'm afraid when he couldn't even say to your face he wanted to finish it. You still have feelings for him and are angry because of what he did to you. Tell yourself you deserve MUCH better than him. He didn't even have the backbone to say it to your face. Move on and in time you'll find someone else who will really love you and treat you well. Here's a link which will help you to move on and get over this breakup.
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
Eve
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