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writes: hey so i have a friend (for 9 years) she is cool pretty an djust plain lovely but i hate her guts and dont even know why im so jelious of her she has never been a threat she always does what i do after i do and better at it than my so i have done drama and dance since i was six and as soon as she does it its like i have never done it (in her opinion) she hates my best friend cuz they were besties when they where little but my besty kinda "brokeup " with her and she never forgave her after like 5 years we all go to school together help !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone!! xxx
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (23 August 2012):
 First off why do you hate her guts??does she put your down and claim what she has done is the best!
If you have been friends for this long I'm sure there was something there,at your age,jealousy is a common feeling but it will eventually go away when you grow older unless you act on it..
When I was in school I had similar issues with 2 friends who fell apart and tried my best to get them together,thinking of it now,I shouldn't have cause it was just driving me nuts,I was nice to both should have stuck to that and let them solve their own issues..
If there is anything about this girl that's bothering you talk to her,she's a friend she'l understand!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2012): Hate doesnt get you anywhere and neither does being jealous. I know its hard but try to focus on yourself instead of her let her get on with her thing and you get on with yours.There is always goingn to be someone who is better at something than you are, whether they are your friend or not. the sooner you get used to that the better you will feel
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reader, MissTellAll  +, writes (23 August 2012):
 Stop focusing on her and focus on yourself.
And she isn't your friend if you say you hate her- maybe you're the one wo isn't a good friend here? How would you feel if you thought someone as your friend but it turns out she goes around saying she hates you?
Don't compare yourself to her, because this sort of jealousy and draa is pointless. Nothing good comes from it.
You're 13-15, so friendships aren't exactly the most stable thing, and neither are hatreds.
Just don't take it so seriously. Focus on more important things like school, family or 'friends' that you don't hate.
Hope this helped!
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (23 August 2012):
 You hate her guts but you say she is your friend?
why do you hate her so much? does she make you feel inferior in anyway?
jealousy is normal to feel but it is not realistic, truth is your friend is no better than you are, thats just your perception of it.
If she's fallen out with your bestfriend thats their business to solve, in my experience i know its hard because they both be in drama with each other, but let them resolve it themselves. I went through the same thing with 2 of my friends, and they drove me crazy. lol
I should have let them sort it out rather than make their friendship issues mine (when it wasnt)... i advise you the same.
Goodluck!
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