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I'm in love with my brother what should I do???

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Question - (23 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm in love with my younger brother. He's the only guy that truly loves and cares for me. If I ever need someone to talk to he's there for me and I love spending time with him. He's smart and he has a really cute smile.

I love him more than I've ever loved any of my boyfriends and he makes me feel special

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010):

I guess the first question to ask is this: What do you feel about doing about your love for your brother? By that, I mean are you finding that because you love him, that you are physically attracted to him? And do you love him so much that you want to have sex with him? I would talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way about you. Then talk things out and ask him what he thinks you and him should do about your love for each other. Post back to let us know what he says or what happens so that we can advise you further, if needed. And good luck!

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A female reader, YourDestiny11 United States +, writes (24 March 2010):

YourDestiny11 agony auntWell this is way wrong. Which doesnt sound like u can help it but u should try harder because this would never work out and im sure ur brother would freak which would make things weird. good luck.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntI'm sure you know the consequences of incest. Not to mention your brother would be really freaked out by this.

I guess you never had a boyfriend who really cares about you as much as they should and your brother just ticks the boxes. Just try not to think about your brother in that way, spend more time with other guys and I'm sure you'll find the guy who loves you =]

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (23 March 2010):

The Realist agony auntThe best thing for you to do is love him like a brother and nothing more. Its probably what you don't want to do but there are so many problems that will come out of that kind of relationship. I'm not going to list then, I'm sure others will anyway.

It is nice to hear that you two are so close and that you will always watch out for each other but there is definitely someone else out there for you who will be good to you. Your brother can be your best friend and the thought of a fling with him may be in your mind but that will bring a life time of problems that neither of you deserve.

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