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writes:HeyIm 17 and i've just come out of a year long relationship with someone. Back in February i met this really nice guy i met at a party, he was very drunk and spend the whole evening telling me i looked amazingly beautiful. I really liked him, but i was also aware that he was drunk and at that time i was still with my boyfriend so obviously i did not act on it! Just when i split up with my guy i started talking to this guy i had met in February a lot - im pretty sure its not a rebound, as i know that feeling and this isnt it. He took me to the cinema, earlier this week and we got on fine, he even put his arm round me and cuddled me throughout the film, and told me how pretty he thought i was. One of his friends also told me that he really really liked me too, which made me really happy. So last night we went out again, and i tried cuddling up to him again but he gave me a look like i was a complete freak.. so i said sorry as i was a bit confused as to his behavior. I asked him whether he liked me and he said yes, but he didn't want to hurt me as hes going away to university in September, so i suggested why don't we have something that lasts the summer.. he said. But i think that there was a misunderstanding because i tried to hold his hand on the way home and he pulled away. I told him that his friend had told me that he liked me and he said that there must have been a mistake. But i still don't understand why he cuddled up to me in the cinema. I'm really really upset, and i don't know how to get him to care about me and he keeps sending me mixed messages, what should i do??
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reader, :):):) +, writes (16 June 2007):
Men are so confusing! It sounds like he likes to be in control of the situation and hasnt had much experience of the girl calling the shots.I'd play it cool for a while and if he likes you he'll come after you
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 this guy is so confusing!he tells u he likes you and then tells u it was a mistake wen his friend told u the same?move on and forget about him u shouldnt waste ur time waiting for the next cuddle at the cinema.u deserve someone who tells u how it is and treats u well.if he really does like u then he will chase u but dont hold ur breath leave it move on and enjoy cuddling someone else at the cinema who wont make u feel like a freak for it.good luck and be happy babe xxx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 I think this guy liked you at first.He cuddled up to you in that cinema.Then there was some kind of misunderstanding between you two.Both you and him were sending mixed messages to one another.Now about "hes going away to university in September, so i suggested why don't we have something that lasts the summer".Uni does not mean end to previous life, but it widens outlook a lot - you should keep long distance relationship with him.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 June 2007):
 He seems to be letting you know that once he goes to University he might meet someone else, he definitely doesn't seem to want anything serious. Him putting his arm around you in the cinema was him just being chivalrous. You told him that his friend said he liked you and he said "there must have been some mistake"???? So he doesn't like you?
Move on or let him chase you more. If he doesn't then he wasn't who you thought he was anyway, I'd find someone else who can treat you far better. He doesn't deserve you.
Eve
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