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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: There's this girl at school who i've known properly for about a year. I'm thinking about her constantly but none of my thoughts are sexual and i feel that i only want her as a friend. At the same time, whenever i see her i get this feeling deep down that something is missing. She's dropped some subtle hints that give the impression that she may be interested in me, but i don't know how serious she truly is. I think i should also mention that ive never really had a proper girlfriend. Please help. My heart is telling me two things and im very confused. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (29 June 2008):
I'd say go for it! If you feel something is missing then try and fill it. It's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. You have to go up to her and just ask her to lunch :) start small and see how she reacts. Just try and get her attention while still being yourself :)
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reader, graciie; +, writes (29 June 2008):
what you could do is become proper good mates with her and see how that goes,
and if you still feel something is missing
why dont you give it a try,
but i wouldnt go commiting yourself into anythingthat you arent sure about it isnt fair on you or her,
xo
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