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writes:Hi i am dating my mum's bf's son.Everyone knows about it, I would just like to know if this is ok to do? please reply thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for all your comments well we have been dating for 2 years in june and both parents know about this and they said that they are not bothered about it but they have also talked about the consequences if we break up they are already living together but not married yes we got together after my mum and her bf met well thanks for the comments again xx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 Hi,
Do your Mom and her boyfriend know about this? Did you meet after your Mom and he got together? If there is a problem at home because of this with either of them, you should listen to what they have to say. They may be really serious and planning to marry - in that case - he would be living in your house with you and be your step brother. You will never be blood related, but if you know that marriage could be a possiblity, this could get messy. What if you date him, then break up, then have to live together as step-siblings? Ouch! You could have a royal battle going on in your house! If it's not too late, I'd reconsider and date a total stranger. Sorry to be the voice of doom, but although there is not a problem with being genetically related, the situation could get really messy. It's something that you should discuss with your Mom and then respect her wishes about. I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but I thought you should know the possible pitfalls that come with dating him. Sorry, I thought it might be something that you hadn't considered and that you should know. Take Care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): Yes, it's ok as long as he is not blood related to you (like he's your mum's son as well).
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (13 April 2007):
 This is perfectly fine as you are both not blood related but i understand how it can look a little awkward but no dont worry about it theres nothing wrong with it.
hope this helps x
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