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writes: i was in the car with my b/f and truck was by us delivering this beer and i did not know the name..i said it to him that i never heard of it. He looked at me and laughed at little--it didnt look like in a mean way or anything..almost like i was being cute but i am not sure--and then he said its a higher end beer...which i didnt think anything at the time but them i am thinking--why did he make a comment like that telling me its a higher end beer..he could have said it like oh it supposed to be a higher end beer or something..was he commenting on my class or just let it go and i am being way to sensitive? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): I think that you are being sensitive to this question because YOU are actually judging your own class. You seem to be sensitive on class issues, is that because you feel that you are in a lower class than him? Do you feel that he cares about something like that? Personally I think he said that because he thought you wouldn't know much about beer because you don't drink different types of beer like he does. Maybe your comfortable with just a Bud like most people but he considers himself a beer connoisseur. If your boyfriend would comment on something like the class your in, you don't need him anyway: but I don't think he was.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 your being sensitive hun, my ex used to do it ALL the time with me becoz i am a right clutz at times. There was always somethign i didnt understand and he`d shake his head and go 'its a shame' and laugh, but i didnt think anyhting of it. Dont worry yourself over this, but if its eating at you then why not ask him, just casually drop it into a convo, like 'i saw that beer again, and what did you mean its higher end beer?', you should get your answer then.
hope this helps x
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reader, rk06  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 I can almost promise you he wasnt commenting on your class. Males just expect everyone to know different types of beer thats all. He was just explaining why you might not have ever heard about it... usually people dont drink the expensive shit lol cuz a good ol' bud light will do the trick.
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reader, penta +, writes (13 April 2007):
 Maybe you're being too sensitive. But maybe not. You should let him know that it's bothering you and give him the chance to explain. If you can't talk about something this simple, you may have bigger problems later on.
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