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*mylkx
writes:I don't know what my ex really wants anymore. I've never been so caught up with anyone before and it's a terrible first time. My ex is attached to this girl for about 10 months now and he is still in constant contact with me(We broke up in 2006 because of religious issues). I know it's wrong but everytime we meet up, we end up making out and cheating on my then boyfriends (after breaking up with him) and his current girlfriend. It's so sad that we've found something that binds us both together only after breaking up. But anyway, everytime we talk, we end up being this close to arguing because somehow we want US to work again, but can't. It's quite frustrating, really, and I can see how much he likes his girl. We recently met up again because he had a letter to pass to me and we kinda had a short heart to heart talk, for the first time ever. He's not one to confront problems and he always runs away from issues. Whenever I want to talk emotional, he talks physical and shuns my questions. He stated in the letter that he's just scared to open up to me. But anyway, after that meeting, he's now ignoring me. He sounds so cold and I have no idea why. Is it because I cried infront of him? It's not that I wanted to. I don't know what else to do. I really don't.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 I think bendygirl is spot on personally. I would sever all ties. Beacuse it sounds like in the last 2 yrs you have adted other people, but never moved on from him. All the time you are in contact, you wont be happy if you meet someone or stay single. Its a lose lose situation and you know that really. But you're addicted to him.
If you cant be together then dont sell yourself short like this. Cold turkey time and then you will eventually meet someone and not cheat on them with a dead on person.
Good luck
C xxxxx
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reader, BendychickP  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 I think you need to cut all ties to this guy. I don't think he is good for you and I think he is messing around in your head. I think that there is just too much history and physical chemistry there for your two to retain a friendship. If you really love this guy, and you want him back, then tell him. What is the worst that can happen? If he turns you donw, then you can move on with someone else. If he wants to be in relationship too, then great! You shouldn't bottle up your feelings, but obviously this guy has a pretty strong hold on you. Maybe you should let go. Good luck, and best wishes.
Bendy xx
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