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writes:Me and my boyfriend of 8 years when out for a St. Patricks celebration with a couple of friends and one of our friends brought a co-worker with her, so as the night went on the drinks started hitting all of us and so I started dancing with the co-worker and we where just having fun freakin each other and as she walked over to the bar I started dancing with my boyfriend he kept grabbing her ass. It bothered me but we where all drunk having fun so I didn;t care at the moment. but we did discuss it the next morning and he said he was sorry and he didn;t know he even did that and told my friend to tell her co-worker that he was sorry. But now I am thinking about it and it is really bothering me, I mean was it cause he was drunk? or my fault for freakin with her? I need help I need to understand I guess why he did it and why I feel so upset.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): I think it was the drink making him act this way but i don't know because i don't really know either of you. Don't dwell on this, he did say he was sorry and apoligised, so just let it go. It happened, hes sorry, move on.
Take care
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Hey,
Well... you've been dating this guy for eight years? Your relationship is good otherwise? You were freaking with the girl and he was drunk... he probably just got carried away. If he says he's sorry and he doesn't make a habit of grabbing girls booties, I think you should forgive him.
By freak dancing with that girl, you were egging him on a little bit... you did say you were all drunk and having fun. He apologized, I think you should let this one go. It was a jerk move, but he's sorry.
xxIndia
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Maybe its cos you were freaking with her, he thought it was ok? According to urbandictionary.com, freaking: dancing to simulate sex. So yeah, I'm guessing its what I just said
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): Er, maybe because he acted like a pig? Try not getting so drunk the next time you all go out, and don't freak with the girl, what ever that means.....
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