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*ichole5226
writes:I am so sad and confused. I live with Bill and he tells me all the time he loves me but he hits me in the head, chokes me and when we go out he flirts with other females in front of me. One female said he wanted to have sex with her. Bill blames his drinking on his ways but I am thinking his drinking is not to blame. I pay most all the bills and rent and he wont even but me on the lease always has a story as to why. I use to really love him and i have tried to help him but I am burned out now. i aint sure what else to do?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Hi. I would like to say that there are men that are not like him. There are men, friends of yours perhaps, that would gladly help you get out of the situation. These are the people you should be with. I'll admit, I got arrested many times. However, I got arrested for being party boy for halloween. I did not get arrested for hitting a woman and battering her emotionally, because I feel empty inside. I did not harm anyone, etc.Find yourself a good guy. You can do better than that, no matter what he has said to you. No matter how many times he has hurt you. No matter what he has done to you. You are still a woman with her own gifts, talents, beauty, and worth. You have the right to be happy. If you need to talk DO NOT hesitate to message me. I will not hesitate to help you any way I can. Vincenzo
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): You are not sure what to do? It's not obvious to you??? You need to run for the hills, this man is a ??can't even come up with a word that is bad enough to describe him!
When you finally walk out that door, head straight for a counselor's office and do NOT get involved with anyone else until you clearly understand how human beings should treat each other!
Now RUN!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 January 2010):
Leave him. Look at the facts. You pay the rent and bills, while he drinks, hits you, chokes you, flirts with other women. He's using you because your confidence is so low you'll take it. You need to take a big step forward and leave this man. Drinking is not to blame. He is. And don't fall for that 'I promise I'll change' crap either, because he won't. You deserve a better man, and you can get one. Get rid of him of spend time focusing on your own life for a while.
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reader, Roadster73 +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Do you have family, or good friends? If so I would pack your stuff and leave him as fast as you can, I think something bad could happen to you, like he chokes you that bit harder next time and kills you
If you dont have family look online at womens safe houses or contact your local church even if your not a follower and they can get you in touch with help or please consider contacting the police and they will be with you whilst you pack your stuff and put you in a safe house
Please you have to relize this guy is bad bad news and without help will never change!
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