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writes:hi im 20, 21 this year. i haven't had much luck with men, im not a virgin but i can still count on my 1 hand. i have trust issues, i dont usually believe any guy if they say they want 2 be with me and im usually right but i have no life, i dont go out i have no job, i still live with the parents, the only good thing in my life is that i can drive, even then i cant go places coz ive usually no money and if i do want to go out i usually cant coz all of my friends are busy working or in with their baby, i dont have many friends but i need 2 get out, i just feel so down all the time, i want 2 settle down and have kids but i dont even have a bf, and most guys i meet dont usually want kids for at least 10 years, i need advice, sorry for all the words but i was never good with shortening stuff. any advice, much apreciated! thanks x
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reader, NaomiMarie +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Hello, I will start by saying the fact that you can count the people you have slept with on one hand is NOT a bad thing, you should think of it as an achievement, something to be proud of. It shows that you have self respect and you don't just rush into bed with anyone. As you said in your question, "I'm so fed up with my life, how can I get out of this rut?" You are just in a rut, which is a semi-permanent part of many peoples lives. Try not to focus so much on a relationship for the time being and focus on sorting yourself out, try to find a job and with a job will come a new community of friends, it is almost guaranteed. Once you have a job and a new group of friends your confidence will grow, Men find confidence very attractive and therefore this is when a relationship will find you rather than you hunting for a relationship.Hope this helped.NaomiMarie.
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