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writes: im so down.i live at university where there are thousand of students and i only get on with one person. I find it so hard to talk to people and make new friends. i always think that people dont like me. Iv never had a lot of friends but i thought that you were supposed to have the time of your life at uni.im dreading going back.wil i be like this for the rest of my life?is it that im a horrible person?i sometimes feel that i am not a nice person.but i cant just change my personlity.i think when i try to be friendly i just come accross as fake.i never ever know what to say to ppl. plz help me x x
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reader, cd206  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Going to uni can be the most difficult time of your life. Friends don't come easy to me either but you have to force yourself to get out there and make friends. I'm shy too but you can't expect people to come to you if you're not willing to make the effort back. You say you have one friend.... well presumably they have other friends. Ask if you can go out with them in a big group once. Trust me... it's hard but if you're not willing to put the effort in you're going to find uni miserable. It's worth the effort!!
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