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I'm worried about something going horribly wrong the first time we have sex

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Question - (2 January 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I was wondering how to prepare for losing my virginity. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and he is a virgin also. We both want to have sex, he's just a little more confident about it. I'm scared that something is going to go horribly wrong. So what are some tips to help me prepare and make it great for both of us?

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A female reader, Linsay United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2012):

Linsay agony auntHi there,

I was exactly the same as you! How long have you been with your boyfriend? Are you sure you are ready? If I were you I would go on the pill before hand, but that is obviously up to you.

Are you sure your boyfriend is ready? Maybe you could speak to him about having sex with him. You should feel comfortable and don't be pressured into it.

Hope I was some help.

Good Luck!

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (3 January 2012):

The worst thing could be you getting pregnant or getting an STD. He must wear a condom and has to put it right.

If you are not completely sure, don't do it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012):

First off take it slowly plenty of kissibg and touching to make sure you are both ready also get him to wear a condom or get yourself on some sort of contraceptive also make sure that when the forst time you do it it is somewhere you know you are not gonna be disturbed good luck hope this helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012):

yup.

1. wear a comdom.

2. have fun and relax.

3. wear a condom.

4. do "it" indoors. Trust me...

5. understand each other

6. wear a tight condom ;)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

Honeypie agony aunt1. Don't do it in a car or somewhere nasty.

2. make SURE he wears a condom - and knows how to put it on right.(and you might even consider going on the pill beforehand)

3. go slow, take the time to explore each other.

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