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I'm a woman and the thought of gay men having intercourse really excites me, is this normal?

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Question - (15 March 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm a 30 year old woman and the thought of gay men having intercourse really excites me. Is that normal? Seems kind of wierd to me, but I can't help feeling that way. I enjoy the thought of women being together as well, but not as much as the thought of 2 men. I know I'm bi-sexual, could that be why?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007):

Gay porn turns me on!!! I often dabble in it! What's not to love...two hot guys enjoying themselves and not a lady-flower in sight! Excellent!

And in response to a previous answer- seriously anal sex is not messy providing you eat enough fibre and prep in the right way!

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A female reader, scotsgirl United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2007):

Lol , yep i think its hot too , its always turned me on1 Occasionally ill watch a bit of gay porn , thats always good fun !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007):

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Cool, I don't feel so wierd now. Thanks ladies!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (16 March 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntI am right there with you. The thought of two guys? I don't think it's because you're bi-sexual... it could, but I'm straight and two men? Oh yes. The same way men fantasize about two women together, two hot guys going at it sounds hot to me.

Johnny Depp... Orlando Bloom... both in pirate gear. Oh yes.

If you're not normal, I'm not either and we can make a club.

(you're very normal)

xxIndia

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A female reader, chachacha United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

It's not weird at all. Don't worry about it.

By the way, I don't agree with the previous poster "Ask Heather" who has expressed some negative views about anal sex which apparently are untrue. There's a book called "A woman's guide to anal sex" which you can buy on Amazon if you're interested.

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A female reader, tazlilly United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

Hey hon,

No it's not weird at all. Plenty of women find the idea of two men together exciting - after all, if men find lesbians arousing, why can't women do the same for gay men? I admit myself that I do have a soft spot for gay men - who doesn't? - and while the thought of gay sex doesn't excite me, I can get a bit flustered when two men kiss.

So relax, it isn't freakish. And while it might not be what every girl does, you certainly aren't alone. Novelists like Poppy Z Brite who write (tasteful) homoerotic novels would be out of a job if you were.

Hope this helped.

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A female reader, Ask Heather +, writes (15 March 2007):

Ask Heather agony auntThinking and fantasising about sex and human bodies is entirely normal & healthy. Quite often, what we fantasise about, we wouldn`t do in real life. Lots of women, bi sexual or not, have thoughts about being with another woman; they know the female form and what makes it "tick", what turns a woman on, (many men cannot do this!), this in itself is a big turn on. Whether we take it to the stage of being with another woman, or just thinking about it, is of course a personal decision. However, the thought of gay men having intercourse exciting you I`m not so sure about. As they can only have sex in this way, as opposed to a male/female relationship that sometimes indulges in anal sex, their sphincter (bottom hole) gets stretched; and sex can be quite messy. Porn stars, male and female, regulary have enemas before shooting so the man`s member comes out looking clean. Also, regular anal sex, and the loss of elasticity that goes with it, means that "passing wind" is often something more. If you still find the thought of two men having sex attractive......

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