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My friend is kind of down just now and is thinking of quitting her band but to be in a band was her dream! What can I say to her?

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Question - (15 March 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eace.Love.And.Empathy writes:

My friend has started to get depressed again. She has been depressed before, but then had come out of it. I'm not very good at advice I admit, but she always tells me how bad I am and that I never listen to her. I really don't know what to do. She's in a band and has said that she's being left out and that our group of friends are leaving her out and are making her feel inferior.

I don't know what to suggest. She has a band concert in a couple of weeks and she is thinking of quitting even though her dream is to be in a band.

Sorry this is so long.

Thankyou x

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

nicola79 agony auntI think your friend should be happy to have a friend like you,i know you are worried about her but that doesnt give her the right to treat you like she is doing.

Tell her that you are there for her and will help her to speak to her parents or her doctor about how she is feeling because if she is feeling this way she does need propper help flower.

On the other hand,you are not a door mat and should tell her you want to help her but if she is going to carry on this way then maybe you should cool your friendship down abit.xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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