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writes:How can I end an on-off relationship? I really really really like this guy, but he's using me and the only thing I should do is to end it. I'm struggling to do so, and when finally do I know I'm going to struggle to get over him. Please offer any advice on how I can do this. Please help me sort myself out and get him out of my life before he takes it over completely!! It will be so nice to stop crying! Please help me finish this :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): There will always be people in this world that are ready to use you as much as you will let them do it. You have to learn not to let them do it and respect yourself. Either learn it on this guy or spend years of your life being taken advantage of until you do.
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reader, Indianchic +, writes (24 February 2010):
Babes, you have taken the first step.....you are seeking advice on how to break it.....dont give him the pleasure of knowing that you are hurt, look up, be strong and tell him he is not going to be a part of your present and future anymore as HE IS NOT WORTH IT !! Dont show him your tears , hold your chin up and walk our gracefully....
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reader, loverboy1509  +, writes (23 February 2010):
Any time you are with someone for a period of time it will take time to get over the person. It sounds like you're saying that you care for this individual but they seem to take advantage of that. In order to end this relationship you need to talk to him about your feelings and tell him it's not what you need. He will more than likey try to talk about how he will change but change takes hard work and most the time when people say that they dont change. You need to stick to your guns keep busy by hanging out with other friends and avoid seeing, talking, or even thinking about him... It's easier said then done but time heals all wounds and i think you'll be better off. good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 February 2010):
Look at yourself in a mirror, smile and realize that you deserve better than a guy who just uses you. Ask yourself if you want to be a nobody to this guy, when you can be a someone to another guy. Then go out with some friends and just enjoy being yourself. You deserve better, and when you realize that, you'll be able to get away from him.
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