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writes:hi im 13 , 14 in February and i really want to wear tops but im not confident about my breasts. there 34a and i just want to go out with a top and not a jumper to cover up . I would find myself more attractive by not covering up as much. What should i do is this a normal size?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): you cant do anything really about that im araid....you will have to let them grow naturally. I am also 14 but I am a 36C and they are not a very good size, you should think yourself lucky for having small breasts because if they are too big they will give you back pains ect ect.
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reader, rosiebaby +, writes (27 February 2010):
 well just wait and they will grow i had the same problem but now i am a double d so dont worry
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reader, Bryan_j  +, writes (17 March 2009):
I thought maybe a guys oppinion could be usefull here lol. i can tell you right now that having big breasts isnt what makes a girl attractive. sure its a factor. but any good guy who would like you for you will not care how big your breasts are, they will be looking into your eyes and paying attention to what you say...not gawking at your breasts. and the others are right, your only 14! your time to grow isnt near being over yet, so be patient.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): im 16 and have no at all. its depressing really. but the truth is so many people are in the same situation and my sister whos as flat as i am, picks up all the guys as she is so confident and loves her body. one day i hope i can be like that too and you should learn to love your body aswell. thats the only way to get others to love it, by loving it yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): Your only 13/14...this is totally normal for a young girl because you havent stopped growing yet...im 16 and a D and when i was your age i was totally flat chested! When your body is ready you will develop...and even if you dont have huge great boobs i wouldnt worry! id consider yourself quite lucky actually because i find it so difficult to fid tops which fit because they are too tight across the chest if they fit around my belly and too big around my belly if it fits around my top!
so honest to god honey you will grow at your own pace and to your own size which suits you x x
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 Great question! Don't panic, really. I'm over 18 and only a 34B. My mother is a DD, my grandmother was a D, and look at me! I'm done growing! If you're very thin (like me), you just don't have a lot of fat tissue in your breasts. One breast may be another size and the nipple and aereola (like mine) another shade/color or size. It's natural and normal, and mature guys, polite guys, don't really say much. Don't be afraid of small boobies...EMBRACE THEM! Wear little tops and swim suits. They don't bounce much, they don't get in the way of movies, like my mom's...She moves them out of the way (pulls each one to a side to watch TV between them). Enjoy your petite size, and your life!
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reader, Lilly223 +, writes (7 January 2007):
 Have some patience... they will grow when they are ready to. When I was 14, I was the only one of my friends STILL not wearing a bra.. simply because there was NOTHING to stick in the bra....I was SO jealous of them. BUT... I eventually out did them all by getting a lovely pair just prior to my 15th birthday. With in a matter of two or three weeks I went from nothing to 34B's and finally at 20 stopped with 36DD's. So stop stressing. We all mature at a different rates, don't rush it, it will happen, and you will get the boobs you were meant to have in the next year or so. If you really feel like you need to make improvements on what you have now (although there is nothing wrong with what you have now) try a padded bra. Trust me... having really big boobs isn't all it's cracked up to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): hello you,
Look sweety your still very young and you have a lot more developing to do. I remember thinking the exact same thing at your age, I wished my breasts were bigger too.
But I looked at my build and shape, which was tall and slim everything was inproportion so larger breasts would have looked silly.
Besides I was only young and I realised that I would develop further as I got older.
I mean now Im a 38DD!! and I wish they were smaller!, so dont worry about it Im sure your completely normal and your breasts will grow to the size that suits your body shape.
I hope I have helped sweety.
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reader, jabey +, writes (7 January 2007):
Well Im 36 and have 32a breasts and I love them. Take a look at Kate Moss, Kylie Minogue, and all those other sexy gorgeous women who have small breats. Mine wont be hanging by my knees when Im 60 !!!And when I wear litle tops I get a great padded bra which doubles my size. There are so many bras out there to make your breasts look bigger and sexy. And to be honest if you feel sexy and feel good, thats what will make you attractive, not the size of your breasts. Im petite, bet you are to lots of women would prefer smaller breasts. One problem I never have to contend with is men talking to my chest !!! They talk to me and look into my eyes. Far more flattering dont you think. Breasts are sexy and gorgeous in what ever size they come. Be proud of your assets. Like I said look how gorgeous kate Moss is !!
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reader, black_diamond329 +, writes (7 January 2007):
 Well from all the stuff I read when I was your age there is no need to worry about the size your breasts are just now. They keep growing until your late teens. I have a friend who was completely flat chested and is really skinny and then suddenly she grew a pair out of nowhere when she turned 18. So there is a very likely chance that yours will still grow so don't panic yet. I unfortunately haven't been so lucky. Mines are at a push a 34B now but to make them look bigger since I was 14 I've worn atlantis bra's which make me look a cup size bigger. If this is really a big problem for you then I suggest you buy the older version of this bra (not the one with new technology gel because they are rubbish) then your breasts sit on top of the gel or if you are too small, against the gel which makes it look like you have cleevage in low cut tops and makes your breasts appear a healthy bump in more fitting tops. I always avoided loose jumpers because they tend to make it more obvious and worse. Try wearing tops with stripes or as I said tighter and low cut as this gives the impression you have more than you do. I always wore tight blouses to school and did the buttons to the top so u could see the bump better. Honestly though the bra is the best thing to a boob job, they are a godsend for flat chested gals! I know exactly how you are feeling though because I've always had issues with the size of my breasts and no matter what people say guys do notice and even we notice compared to other healthily endowed gals. This is really the only option for you just now. I myself would never consider as an adult now getting implants as I feel that no one should ever go through such pain for something so trivial that guys say feel fake anyway. There are also breast enlargement pills available online and in herbal shops but a lot of doctors have critized the unhealthy effects they can have on your body. Atlantis bras will really make a noticable improvement trust me! If you need a link to a site that sell them or a shop near you just message me ok. Honestly though you will probably find that yours will grow in time but for a bit of help in the mean time this might help.
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