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I'm 13 he's 17, I want sex but he's still a virgin, how do I ask him when he's ready for sex?

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Question - (8 April 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi i'm 13 but want to have sex. I know that sounds horrible but it's hard. The boy i'm going out with, and have been for a long time, is 17, and still a virgin. How do i ask him when he's ready for sex?

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntIf you ask him you look like a sorry but slag. Your 13 hes 17 so he would be arested and put on sex offenders register i no because my friends bf was. Thats probably why he isnt asking you as you a child and need to wait till you're 16 or older no matter how ready you are he might be saving him self for someone special and some how doing it with a 13 year old little girl is wrong that's why he is probably waiting.

And the fact that you say he's a virgin and your not thats worrying as you're so young. Be carefull!

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (9 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntHi...listen to cuteblonde, BigSis, Emajayne and "X"....they offer you the best advice going...wait...you wont regret it...

Try not to be one of the "Ive done it" crowd...at your age its not big...its not clever and against the law....

enjoy being a teenager....

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A female reader, x-kitycatlok-x United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

x-kitycatlok-x agony auntHe's older than you and it is highly illegal as you're only 13. Just leave it and wait a few years.

Wishing you the best.

xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I see you want to ruin his life. You want him to be arrested.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntYou are willing to make him lose his virginity to you?

No.1 - You are below the legal age of consent.

No.2 - He could be arrested for having sex with you, whether you consent or not.

No.3 - He may go right off you.

No.4 - He might want to be saving himself for someone special.

No.5 - You could get pregnant....

Shall I go on? It's sensible advice, sweety, so you just have to have some self-respect and wait 'til it's legal and not because it's the fashion to 'have it off'.

Please take care of yourself.

BigSis xXx

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A female reader, cuteblonde124 United States +, writes (8 April 2008):

cuteblonde124 agony auntwhoa girl im older than you and i dont know if im ready for sex. slow down and enjoy life a bit before trying to grow up. i know that is not what you want to hear, so i suggest you trying to slowly move up. start on secong base and slowly make it to home plate ;. good luck

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A female reader, Emajayne Canada +, writes (8 April 2008):

Emajayne agony auntyou don't ask him cause u are too young!! WAIT A FEW YEARS MY GOSH!!! he is older than u by not many years but he has so many experiences on u that its a hopeless cause. u are JUST a teenager!! he has been at it for a while. if anyone is ready first its him. yea ur hormons are running rampage right now so its understandable that u'll be craving these things for many years to come. JUST WAIT!

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