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writes:My boyfriend and i after one year of dating got seperated due to circumstances, and we continued dating. It's been just 2 months and i broke up with him cuz he just wasn't the same and then he told me the next day that he kissed another girl and felt guilty that's why he was acting weird, and is sorry and still loves me and all. I'm in a really huge dilemma, don't know if i really want to go on with what we have esp. because i'm tired of hurting, but i know i'd still love him even if we remain apart. I'm sure he does love me, very, maybe just not enough to keep his lips to himself. So what do you think?
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reader, sweetheart03 +, writes (9 April 2008):
Its gonna hurt but girl I've been in that situation for 4 years I've been out of it 2 months to. Its so hard!! I was doing good until he texed me all this sweet stuff! I talked to him then we fought and I saw that we needed to be over! He cheated many times!!! So just be smart red flags are signs!! Be with friends and you will see it will be someone better in your life!
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reader, AL (Scotland)  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Hi..
Its hard when you seperate from someone you love.
The saying is 'it's better to have loved than not loved at all', and i total understand that..
I think you need this time to find your own feet, and if you and your boyfriend are ment to be, than love will find away.
Their are many resons in life, and things that we don't understand, and the reason for this, I feel, is that we are not ready to move forward along that path, where ever life takes us.
I know, you will feel pain at times, but trust me, that will pass..and tomorrow will be another day, and another path to travel.
Take care..
AL
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