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writes:If a man has had two women who he loved who cheated on him would you assume something is missing in what he is able to give to a relationship? This guy seems so emotionally detached. Reply to this Question
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 No, it isnt the one who's been cheated on, its the cheater. They lack being faithful. And if it is your man you are talking about, take it slow and understand hes been heartbroken. He doesnt want it to happen again. Hes obviously having trust issues, understandably.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): Women Cheat, not just men...for all kinds of reasons, a lot of times they just like the attention they get from men.....and of course it sometimes indicates a problem with the primary relationship, but that is not necessarily a reflection of what he is giving to the relationship; it may have just been that he was dating the wrong woman for him and vice versa, it happens.
The cheater is usually the one who lacks integrity, commitment and moral values or sometimes is just emotionally screwed up, to put it bluntly.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 I wouldn't assume that, either.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Hi,
He could have just been unlucky i guess.
But if he seems un-emotional with you, I would use caution in your relationship with him. You dont want to fall for this guy and then find out he is a robot emotionally do you.
Take care XX
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Usually it is something missing in the cheater not the "cheatee", something like integrity, honor, integrity, or just plain moral fiber. How do you know he loved either of these two cheating women? If the guy is emotionally detached it's because he doesn't give a rip about his partner one way or another.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 That is hard to say. What type of women was he with? I don't believe most women tend to cheat. The women I've know that cheat usually lacked something emotionally. So, it either had to be something they missed growing up or it could be from the current relationship.
Most women aren't as sex crazed as men so I don't think that is what hooks them. It's more about the head.
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