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anonymous
writes:Just had a relationship breakup. Thinking of showing up at his place in heels and fishnet tights and showing him a side he never saw. Sex between us was almost nonexistent and now I just want to dominate him in a sexual way. He has never seen this side of me. Is it too late to show it? We have cared about each other in the past but he was always a limp bisquit in the bedroom. How would a man react to seeing a girl he once fancied but became bored with?
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reader, hj87  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Chances are you probably are going to have sex with him again. After its all done he wouldn't care anymore.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Dont bother doing tht babe, You will probably end up sleeping with him and he will stil say its over.. Find someone x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007):
It's probably not a good idea to use yourself sexually to get back your guy. You might end up having sex but he probably won't respect you any more.
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (3 July 2007):
 I honestly would not bother doing this, if the sex was no good before, it won't be now. I went out with someone before i met my husband and that was a similar situation, no fireworks. I met my husband a short time later and it was "wow" we have now been married 15 years and he never bores me, believe me. You would be better to leave things as they are.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 I agree with the ladies.
I don't know the man, but there's a chance he would sleep with you after your coming with high heels and that, and then he would still tell you that you broke up.
Bad idea, madam.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Do you really think that it will win him back, if so i think you are probably deluding yourself.
Possible outcome is that you turn up there he thinks you look fantastic and it turns him on and you end up in bed together.
That will just mess your head up even more, so i would suggest give that one a miss, leave the past in the past and move on.
Take care.xx.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Dont do it your going to humiliate yourself.
There is a reason that you broke up, so find a new guy to flaunt this side of you.
And lets face it you will have the last laugh wont you, your new man is going to see a side of you that no-one else has. Thats much better than going over the same old ground with an ex.
GO GIRL XX
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reader, stina +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Anonymous,
Is it too late to show up at his door dressed in heels and fishnets? You just broke up. Yeah, I'd say it's a little too late.
Why do you want to dominate him sexually after you two have broken up? Wouldn't it make more sense to talk with one another and communicate about what went wrong in the relationship? Wouldn't it be better to figure out how to fix things?
I don't know any of the details about your break up, but usually when two people split, it's not a good idea to become friends with benefits. There are too many emotions involved. (And wouldn't you feel a bit humiliated if he rejected you? And worse, what if he just used your for sexual gratification?)
Like I said, I don't know about your break up - and I obviously don't know you or your guy - but do what you think is right. Do you really want to win him back through using sex? It just sounds degrading, in my opinion.
Unless you're ready for one hell of an emotional roller coaster ride, then I recommend not showing up at his door.
Take care.
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