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writes: ok following up here with my last question..thanks for the feedback!!I talked to my GF and she still claims nothing happened other than virtual sex and I guess I believe her. I feel a bit of a panzy for not being tougher on this issue but I guess Its on her...the question: if she shaves before going out of town and while she is there does that mean she is planning something? She claims it was because she likes to be "clean" for her Time of the month Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Asexy +, writes (31 October 2007):
Have you been with her long enough to see whether she shaves for her period every month? If so, and she doesn't, she's lying. Find someone new.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (26 October 2007):
Firstly, it is not on her, it is ON YOU. The fact you do not understand that is why she is cheating on you.
And yes, she IS cheating on you. It has nothing to do with that time of the month.
I think you are in denial, as it is less painful than dealing with having to be more dominant in your relationship.
-Frank B Kermit author of Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a Test: A man's guide to the Emotional Needs of Women
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (26 October 2007):
Hey Sethoberman. There are always two sides to a story - but this does not sound good. You must be realistic here - I guess you love her very much but love sometimes makes you blind.
Let me get this right:
You know that she is having intimate sessions with men online. You know that she met up with one guy in a hotel. You know that she shaved herself before meeting the guy. You say you are about to move with each other. You say that she says in her defence - she met the guy in the hotel - but they didn't have sex, and that she shaved because it was her period. Is that the situation???????
If it is - you have to face facts - it is vitually certain she is being unfaithful to you. You need to decide what to do and what you can handle. Good luck and think of yourself and the future.
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (25 October 2007):
Some women do genuinely perform to be shaven down as it does make them feel cleaner.
It really isn't grounds to raise suspicion.
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