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If I'm obsessed should I talk to him or leave him alone?

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Question - (4 September 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

ive just got to High school and im already starstruck by this guy I really like. Im obsessed and I go this phone number every time i walk into the cafeteria I try very hard not to look in his direction. That never works I basically stalked him for a week. Onetime i bumped into him in the hallway he was looking down and biting on his lip.Then he looked up at me then he smiled at me for about 3osecs. I did an experiment i wore a mini skirt he started to stare at me in lunch I could feel his eyes on my back . Then i didn't were a skirt just normal jeans and he still stared me. Then I got his number and he sweared a lot but then was sweet. Even though he didn't know who I was and then it happend i had lots of wet dreams and i cant get any sleep. When our team had a home game and the won he ran into the stadium. Then he looked up at me and bit his lip. aRe those signs for me to go and talk to him or should i leave it alone and wait till he fins out who i am?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010):

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Thanks for the advise I did it and he was really sweet about it he made me feel comfortable not at all awkward

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntText him, get to know him, but dont bombard him with messages say if he doesnt reply after an hour. If he replies with more than just "ok" or "lol!" then your in with a chance. Texting usualy brings two people together and its a good way of finding things out about each other, then time will tell, and if you just cant wait, ask him out! :)

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A male reader, bma.com United States +, writes (4 September 2010):

bma.com agony auntHe's out for one thing my dear,Do not waste your time nor energy or him another minute to him your just someone on his to do list. That's sucks butt that's how High School is Good Luck.

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A male reader, Meee666 United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2010):

Well he'll never find out who you are unless you talk to him. I say you should go and start a conversation with him. See what happens :)

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A female reader, bwee123 United States +, writes (4 September 2010):

bwee123 agony auntThis is so not stalking! It's only weird when you stare at him and never say anything to him! Go up and make your move next time you see him in the hall obviously dont make it so apparent but if you have guy frans who are frans with him set up a hang out sess and tell em to invite him along if nott then have a fire or something that can get you guys in an open situation where its not completely awkward if he bites his lip or looks down those are signs that he IS in to you because hes nervous. Whatever you do don't seem to be phased by him just be chill and who you are the worst thing you can do is make the awkward situation worse. GOOOD LUCKK:)

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A male reader, CharmedCupid United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2010):

CharmedCupid agony auntawwhhh,a what a weird love story lol.

Well my dear,go for him,what are you waiting for?

You might miss out!!!

Someone else could come and sweep him up if your not carefull.

Btw,who are you? xD xxx

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A female reader, shapoopsy United States +, writes (4 September 2010):

shapoopsy agony auntDear Anonymous, It seems like he might be into you! At the very least, you have his attention. Have you called him? Does he have your phone number? Try giving him a call and see how it goes. Then, see if he calls you the next time. Relax around him. After all, he's just a person and you will be more approachable if you're chill. Cutting back on following him around would be a good idea. How exciting! Be cool, have fun, and smile! ~Shapoopsy

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