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writes:Hello. Me and my girlfriend are going on a trip to New York City and she been making comments like having sex all the time multiple times a day on this trip. It's only days, I'm a little nervous I won't perform okay. She is 31 and I'm 20 and a virgin and I just feel she has more "experience" than I do.I'm just curious if there are ways to get over this.And a older guy told me if I drink a energy drink that will perk me up and I can have sex multiple times... Is this true or some lie? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): I wouldn't take caffeine because it narrows blood vessels. I would take alcohol only as much as can improve sexual performance. but if there was any reason for any male of your age not being able to sexually perform would be down to nervousness and psyching yourself out hence the alcohol chills the nerves.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 January 2012):
At 20 you should have a short "recovery" period and be able to have sex at least several times in a 24 hour period.
Energy drinks won't affect that...
I worry that she's putting A LOT of pressure on you...are you sure this is what YOU want?
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Not true. I take 800-1000mg of pure caffeine on my eca stacks and when I get out of the gym, I feel like I could plow a brod four times. Im caffeine sensitive and get tons and tons of energy, and mood enhancement. It is the ultimate drug for me and i have yet to try it on a woman but if your looking for sexual stamina, ginseng works without any doping effect. Caffeine too. But take them in pure form of pills, not energy drinks or youll risk a crash from the white death (sugar). Old timer probably had good intention but ill refute his advice. NYC to lose it man? Shit lol what a star enjoy pal!!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 January 2012):
 If she's hot enough, you could drink water from the East River and get it with her multiple times every day... believe me!!!!
Good luck... and have a great time.
P.S. Be sure to use protection!!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 January 2012):
You might find that energy drinks have the opposite effect, and you'll burn up way too much energy too quickly. I'm pretty sure you'll be fine. I'm seeing an older woman (roughly the same age gas as you have), and I've never had a problem. Plus you'll find her added 'experience' benefits you quite a lot.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 I have no idea about the energy drinks but I think you don't need to worry. You are 20 ; time is on your side :). And you are a virgin...I am sure you'll release so much pent up sexual energy that you could light up a skyscraper, LOL. And , you'll be with a more mature, experienced, understanding lady. In the off chance that , due to shyness , "stage fright ", or simply being tired from sightseeing, your performance should be less than stellar, she'll be totally a good sport about it, and she won't even feel disappointed, she KNOWS that only practice makes perfect. Plus, you'll be in NYC, it's a weird place, you get a buzz of erotic energy just from walking around... try to believe.
Have fun !
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Caffine cannot give you sexual stamina. You don't get an erection because of caffine.You're thinking too narrowly. Your penis is entirely unnecessary for her satisfaction. You have other things you can use to stimulate, arouse and bring her to orgasm, such as sex toys, your hands/fingers, and your mouth.Since most women can only reach orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation and her clitoris isn't located INSIDE of her vagina, PIV intercourse won't provide her with the kind of stimulation she needs. So, you can use sex toys, your hands and fingers, and your mouth AS WELL AS YOUR PENIS to satisfy her. A hard penis is only part of what you can provide for her.Don't be nervous. Since you're a virgin, I'm assuming she also knows you're a virgin? Just be open to her teaching you. Be sure you ask her to show and TELL you what she likes, so that you can satisfy her properly. Don't think that a hard penis is the only thing you can offer her. Caffine isn't going to help you stay hard, it'll just help you stay awake.
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (25 January 2012):
No, being 20 will perk you up and you can have sex multiple times.
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