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writes:My girlfriend and I have been together 3 years now and we have a nice sex life. The only issue is this, early in our relationship she would perform oral sex on me daily and I would maybe weekly on her. Now the tables have turned. I mean she doesn't deny me but she used to be agressive and do it without me asking. I wonder when it comes to sex, both intercourse and oral how do you make a woman feel like doing it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): maybe shes trying to tell you something.maybe she wants to receive, and not just give.talk to her about it, its what you do in a relationship.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (20 June 2007):
Hi! 'Making A woman Do It'. You have a great woman, I would say. However, Your "How do I make a woman Feel Like Doing It"? says quite a lot. First off you don't make people do anything. It seems to me that you have had a three year, "You Indian, Me Chief", relationship. Just because she gave her whole body to you doesn't mean that she enjoyed either the oral or the vaginal sex. Gee!, You ever ask her opinion in or out of the bedroom bet not. It kind of looks as if she doesn't want to be the Indian any more. But of course your sexual needs have now gone down to zero. Yet I would wonder if you were filling her sexual needs over these past three years? You two ever talk to each other, or just have sex. She is going through what is called An Emotional-Sexual-Burn-out, in other words, too much giving and very little Physical, and Emotional receiving. You can't make her do anything, but you can see the need for a change in yourself, and do something about it.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 It's because the relationship is three years old. It's not over, just different. Keep it alive and interesting. Tell her how you feel. This is quite common.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 I don't think there's much you can to do to "make" anyone feel like doing anything. But here's a few tips. Make sure you're clean. Sweaty smells are a turn off to some women, so be sure you've showered. Make sure your diet is balanced. Believe it or not, the taste of your sperm can have an extremely fowl flavor if you're not eating right. (Beer drinkers have the best-tasting sperm, just in case you need to know this). Perhaps she's feeling like she isn't getting "fair time" in the nether region, so make sure you're giving it if you want to get it. Other than that, when you say she used to give you oral sex daily, I'm not sure if you mean "oral foreplay" or if you actually came during the act. It could be that she's not going down on you because she doesn't want you to "spend what you have" before you've given her some pleasure. So make sure she's getting satisfied either through intercourse, or oral sex also. I hope this helps you out.
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