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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello...im having a hard time and i need advice..im a 17year old girl and i started meeting this man who is 29 ...he started to really like me and i really like him but i dont know about the age difference...no body knows about me and him because the age difference...but he told me the other day his ex girlfriend is having his baby and i dont know what to do...should i move on and enjoy my life as a normal 17 year old girl and keep fighting for him?
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reader, baddest_chikk  +, writes (26 February 2010):
 heyy..
ii knoo whts its like to feel for someone older and were the same age.. the mother of his child will always be in his life weather ur together or not.. ii understand u wanting to stay and fight for ur man but remeber ur not fighting for HIM and more you'll be fighting for HIM, BABY JR, and BABY MAMA...as 17 year olds were suppose to go through men left and right before we find MR. RIGHT and we cant help who we fall for.. it sucks tht there isnt a book on all the stuff teens feel and goo through but the choice is completely up too you.. i always tell my friends listen to ur heart.. but ur heart got u in this mess sooo now listen to ur mind.. there will be another3
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 Nooo leave him. I am dating someone who is 29, I'm 21. The age difference isn't too bad because maturity wise we meet right in the middle. You are just 17! An almost 30 year old man should not want to be with a 17 year old. You are too young to have to deal with that crap. Plus about to have a kid??? No. I've also dated someone with a kid... The ex girlfriend will always be there. It is a huge deal, especially when you are so young. It's all a lot to take on. I don't know how long you have been talking or anything but I'd have to say move on, not worth it. Too much work and heartache will go into it, you should enjoy your life like you said and date someone closer to your age who you have more in common with. Good luck!
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