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I want to start living as a woman. How do I tell my wife?

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Question - (20 June 2020) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2020)
A male United States age , *issyJoanne69 writes:

My wife started dressing me as a woman when we first started dating, we have since married and my dressing up as Joanne continues. About a year and a half ago, my wife brought up wanting to see me with a man while I am dressed as Joanne, I agreed to it and have since been with several men. My problem is, that now, I want to start living as a female and be with only men. I just cant control myself when I am with a man who treats me like the woman I want to be, I melt like butter and become putty in their hands. How can I break this to my wife, after just recently telling her that I didn't like being with men, she even made me promise her that that was true ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2020):

You're a rascal, just having fun with the uncles and aunts.

You've gotten some answers. Hope you're happy!

We're not so vain and narcissistic we like to read our own answers. We genuinely like to help people.

When you have a true problem, and you'd like some real down-to-earth heartfelt advice; we'll be here waiting for you.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (24 June 2020):

CindyCares agony aunt This is annoying.

Yeah, of course this is a wind up- what else ( as the question referred to by YCBS shows clearly ). But that, I would not mind . After many years on DC, the questions naturally tend to be more or less the same, so when there's a question involving something more complicated and unusual, even if probably invented, .. it's welcome and very interesting.

But, it is so obvious that this OP does not need to ask or know anything, he just wants to in rub our faces his sexual fantasies, - and I am a little annoyed. We are all volunteers on this site, nobody gets even a free candy out of this- … and if I am supposed to help people masturbate better….. well, shouldn't I get paid something for my trouble :)) ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2020):

I would just concentrate on you at the moment and forget relationships, try and understand yourself more. How can you understand your self when you don't know your own truth. Hope you find some inner peace.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2020):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntNot so long ago, this was your post:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-like-dressing-up-and-acting-as-a.html

Within a matter of weeks you have allegedly gone from not really wanting to go with a man to going with lots of men, to telling your wife you don't like being with men, to wanting to be a woman and only being with men.

My head is spinning and my gut is telling me this is a wind-up.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2020):

kenny agony auntI recall this post a few months back. diden't your wife want to record you being intimate with men, and the majority of the posts here all agreed that this was a bad idea.

I think with you dressing up as a woman, and now that your wife has seen you perform with several men, she is probably resigned to the fact that she has kind of lost the man she married anyway.

A suggest that all you can be is upfront and honest with your wife and tell her that this is the life you want. Honesty is the best policy.

Tell her and let the chips fall where they may.

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