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writes: Hey everyone i really need your help. How do i go about tellin my girlfriend that i want to spend some time alone with her? Everytime we talk or try and spend some time together her friends always have to tag along even when we do not invite them. Whats the best course of action? Also im fine with her friends but sadly they're type that love to see how much they can annoy you. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, IamJess +, writes (11 July 2012):
Your supposed to spend alone time in a relationship with someone I'm sure she wouldn't want your friends around all the time, go gently about talking to her though, just tell her how you feel, and that your in a relationship with her not all her friends aswell, she should understand.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (11 July 2012):
Tell her exactly how you feel and that you want to have alone time with her. She also needs to know that if you are the one to tell her friends to leave you guys alone they will probably take it the wrong way.
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reader, jinxx +, writes (11 July 2012):
Tell her you'd like to spend time alone with her, without her friends there. Just like that. It's not unreasonable that you'd like to... I mean, she is your girlfriend after all !
I'm sure she'll understand and wont be offended, and the same goes for her friends. Maybe plan a nice date night or something where it's obvious having her friends tag along would be a little weird.
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