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I want to spend time with my girlfriend minus her friends. How do I tell her?

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Question - (10 July 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone i really need your help. How do i go about tellin my girlfriend that i want to spend some time alone with her? Everytime we talk or try and spend some time together her friends always have to tag along even when we do not invite them. Whats the best course of action? Also im fine with her friends but sadly they're type that love to see how much they can annoy you.

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A female reader, IamJess United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2012):

IamJess agony auntYour supposed to spend alone time in a relationship with someone I'm sure she wouldn't want your friends around all the time, go gently about talking to her though, just tell her how you feel, and that your in a relationship with her not all her friends aswell, she should understand.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (11 July 2012):

The Realist agony auntTell her exactly how you feel and that you want to have alone time with her. She also needs to know that if you are the one to tell her friends to leave you guys alone they will probably take it the wrong way.

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A female reader, jinxx Canada +, writes (11 July 2012):

jinxx agony auntTell her you'd like to spend time alone with her, without her friends there. Just like that. It's not unreasonable that you'd like to... I mean, she is your girlfriend after all !

I'm sure she'll understand and wont be offended, and the same goes for her friends. Maybe plan a nice date night or something where it's obvious having her friends tag along would be a little weird.

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