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I broke up with my GF 2 weeks ago, shes now playing mind games! What gives ?

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Question - (1 June 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Two weeks ago my GF and I broke it off. We been together for a 1.5 years. And I pushed her away at the end of our relationship because she had no time for me, only coming out to see me if she had something she had to do around my area, like dance practice or seeing a friend.. and I was always the one making trips to see her late at night. We live 40 miles apart from each other. But when I invite her to places she say's that she's to tried or some stupid excuse about work.. Since we broke up she stills calls me late at night 2-3am from being out and this is a weekday, I could her the car in the background... asking me how are things? what you been up to? I'm like in my head you already know my damn routine why ask?!? then all of a sudden she puts me on hold and clicks to the next call and never comes back to my side!!!??? What is that deal with that!? it's freaking irritating the hell out of me!!! I try to call her back she doesn’t pick up!? I’m going to her dance practice and have a talk with her about this stupid game she’s playing…. Wake me up late at night getting me all upset… what you think?

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2006):

smeedle agony auntShe really is playing you, you need to tell her to stop ringing you or you will change your number, she is not interested and only wants you because there is no one else around and because she can, she will get a kick out of waking you up and winding you up then hanging up.

Ditch this woman for good and find you a nice girl.

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (1 June 2006):

Lostandalone agony aunt Dude you are so NOT in control. Just don't be available. Answering her call and giving her the oppurtunity to make you feel like this is insane. Cut the strings and move on. Your little talk at her dance practice will only boost her ego even more. DON'T DO IT. Just don't talk to her, change your number, block hers out anything to let her know you mean business. She doesn't respect you. Good Luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006):

I would be very careful in this situation. I don't mean to sound harsh, but she may have met someone else and is possibly stringing you along.What an ego boost for her clicking from one caller to another!! Don't be her fool, turn your phone off, and then she won't be able contact you.How can she play her games if you're not willing to go along with them? You will be in control, don't let her get to you and move on.

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