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Why do i need the toilet when i have sex?

Q.   this is an embarrassing question but why is it that every time i have sex i get the feeling that i need to go to the toilet? even if iv just been....

A.   30 July 2007: if you are one of the lucky few females that can ejaculate, then if you let that sensation go along then it probably means you are about to. If thats not the case, then when a penis is inside you, it is being thrusted not too far from your bladder ... (read in full...)

I want to please my girlfriend--can anyone tell me where the G-spot is?

Q.   Hi, I really need help! My girlfriend came round the other day and we tried to improve on what we'd kind of achieved already. She tossed me off and I came, but when I fingered her I don't think I got her anywhere near! I keep reading that the "vag...

A.   25 June 2007:  maybe this will help, oh and about the clitoris thing, its a little ball shaped figure about a half inch down from where lips start to form, but be careful, its very sensitive! This is for the g-spot: Insert a finger (or two), about 2 in... (read in full...)

What is a "dry hump"?

Q.   helo, its a silly question, but what is a dry hump?...

A.   2 June 2007: I's pretty much the act of sex but with your clothes on. It's kind of like grinding on eachother.... (read in full...)

Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?

Q.   hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...

A.   27 May 2007: it might be nothing, but doctors have found that breast cancer can go all the way into the armpit, so that is a possibility. go to the doctor soon just to make sure. i hope everything turns out ok!... (read in full...)

My hair is falling out in clumps! What is happening to me?

Q.   I'm scared, im 19 and my hair's falling out. I have been under some emotional stress lately but that part of my life has some what calmed down but my hair just seems to be falling out more and more. Whenever I touch my hair it comes away in my hand ...

A.   27 May 2007: that happened to me exactly and my doctor just said it was because i was on stress overload. i had so much going on and so much to do that he said that was normal. but if this continues for a lot longer , then i would go to the doctor... (read in full...)

I percieve the act of sex as something 'dirty' rather than something pleasurable. How do I deal with this?

Q.   hiya. I find it easy to talk about sex but i find it very difficult to be intimate with someone. The thought of being intimate in a sexual way with someone does not appeal to me and for some reason i see it as dirty rather than something pleasu...

A.   21 May 2007: this is common, you're not alone. there are many different types of people in the world and some people find sex extremely pleasurable, some find it painful and some are like you who find it as a rather dirty act. That's perfectly normal, and your ... (read in full...)

Please write back... do YOU think I may be pregnant?

Q.   Omg I need help soooo bad. I'm 14. My boyfriend is 16. I had sex with him February 14th (Valentine's Day) but here is the twist, I think I'm pregnant! Around February 26th I had a very light period (that was brown) sooooo... then my boobs have ...

A.   18 March 2007: Well you are going to have to take a pregnancy test to know for sure. but if you had ur period then i dont think you are. but i would really take a test or go to a clinic to find out for sure... (read in full...)

Why can I never orgasm when I'm making love to him?

Q.   I have been going out with my honey for about a year now and everything is great except for sexually. He's really easy to pleasure, I can always get him off, but I've never had an orgasm from him. I'm blushing as I write this - I feel so ashamed! ...

A.   18 March 2007: this is actually a pretty common problem. since you're a virgin, and sex is not an option, there are other things you guys can do to try to make your orgasm. you say he fingers you, but maybe you need clitoral stimulation. ask him to rub your clit. ... (read in full...)

Why is he acting so close to me all the time when he has a girlfriend?

Q.   There's this boy, we are together when ever we can , we text each other constantly and we talk on msn for like 10 hours a day. However he has a girlfriend and they hardly ever talk. Some people have said he is doing it to make me jealous or ...

A.   18 March 2007: not too long ago I had a situation pretty similar to yours. me and this guy had a relationship in the past and broke up and 2 years later he wwas with a new girl and we still talked so much and he definitly flirted with me and wanted to do stuf with ... (read in full...)

My fiance wants a threesome. He's had one before, I've never done it, but I'm curious.

Q.   My fiance wants a threesome. He's had one before, I've never done it, but I'm curious. If I said yes I think it's gonna mess up our relationship. I really do love him. What should I do? Does this mean he's not satisfied with me? Isn't it like ...

A.   18 March 2007: if it's something your truely interested in, which it seems like your not, then ask him more about it and learn more about why he wants to. do not do it just because its fantasy of his. if he is forcing you then maybe he's not the right one for you ... (read in full...)

I masturbate once or twice a week, is this normal?

Q.   I am 21 and want to get out of masturbation. What should I do.. I normally do that once/twice a week whenever there is strong urge. is that normal?...

A.   18 March 2007: this is perfectly normal. that isn't even as much as you think it is. there are people that masturbate even multiple times a day. masturbation is the safest way to engage in sexual activity and you should never worry about it. you should only start ... (read in full...)

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