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writes:I was with someone, and everything was going great. But one day I made him very mad, and he dumped me after that.. ( He couldnt take it, and thats just how he is as a person.. He can't deal with me being a bitch.. I think he's afraid of facing problems.. ) A month after our break up i called him once, and he wouldnt talk to me. He wouldnt even pick up the phone. We wrote messages on the phone, and he said that I didnt mean anything anymore and that he had moved on.. after that I realized that I had to move on too..I was still thinkin about him, but there was nothin I could do. I deleted his number, and his MSN ... but one day, he wrote to me on MSN. and we started talking again. He told me that he missed me, and we wrote everyday after that. he wrote things that he missed being with me, holding me, kissing me, and waking up with me, stuff like that... but one day he stopped contacting me. and to be honest, I didnt contacted him either.. He broke my heart, and I didn't wanted him to know that I really did love him.. So I wouldnt text him.. Too proud I guess.. But, a couple of days ago he wrote to me again on MSN.. not something interesting or important, he just said hi and like that.. I don't think he would EVER had contacted me again, if he really didnt care. I think that he would leave me alone, if he didnt felt anything.. I know that I would leave him alone, if I didnt felt anything.. I wouldnt have contacted him to be honest.. I only did because I loved him.. I just never really told him that I love him, because I was afraid.. We were together about 2 months, not so long, but it was perfect. and I first realized when he left me, that I really loved him with all of my heart. and I've NEVER felt like that before..There's one thing more.. The day after I called him (a month after our breakup) he suddenly were in a realationship on FACEBOOK.. And when we started talking again I ask him about it, and he told me that it was just for fun, and I think that he did it to make me jealous??? He has done it again, after we stopped talking again, but it was over quick. and that was for fun too.. My friend told me.. BUT; A couple of weeks ago, he was in a REAL realationsship. But he didn't felt anything for her, he told my friend about it.. and she told me. Their realationship is over now. Did he do it to get over me??? make me jealous??? I think.. But what do you?I dont know how he feels, and I can't ask him. That's why I ask you. Can somebody out there help me? what do you think?? I know its hard to tell, but please.. help me. I need it. Does he care? Miss me? Think of me? Love me? at all???Thanks.
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reader, IstillLoveU +, writes (29 July 2010):
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Hmm.. I don't understand why you think that. but no, i don't like to sabotage thing. He was the best thing ever happend to me.. and I made a mistake, and I have paid a big price.. I lost him..
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reader, IstillLoveU +, writes (28 July 2010):
IstillLoveU is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnswer to "q1605"
What do you mean about that?
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reader, IstillLoveU +, writes (28 July 2010):
IstillLoveU is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, thanks for your answer :) no, it doesn't sound hard at all. maybe you're right, and that is just the way it is.. He had a problem with my age.. and because of that, he couldn't be with me either.. I guess I have to move on.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I think you are plan B,a.k.a. "the option ". Some mem don't like to work without a net- they like to know there is always someone available to give them sex and attention,- just in case they needed it.
It sounds this guy IS moving on, and trying to date or maybe to find someone he really likes, - and at every failed attempt , he shows up again with you.
This may sound harsh, but if you think about it, your relationship lasted only two months ,and he was the one to end it- I don't think he had either the time, or the inclination, to develop any strong feelings for you.
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